I want to more further in our relationship..

[wowitsstephhh]

Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 5 months and haven't moved very far in our relationship. We've made out before like 34789324 times, but nothing else. Should I talk to him about going to the next level or just go and make the move?

[Elliott200]

hmm coming from a guy :P i would say make the first move (because it's usually the lads that make the first moves anyway), but i dont know dont take my word for it lol, what do you mean by the next step ? sex ? or helping eachother get off lol :/ + your 15 might wanna refrain from sex but it's entirely up to you. There's no rush to have sex.

[Leon]

Define 'next step'.

[strike]

Well yes it is the boys part to make the first moves. Some guys dont know if the girl wants it and is afraid to find out. As SHE said, Me and my boyfriend so she is a girl. You make the first move because then next time he'll know how far to go. I doubt after kissing comes sex :) Im sure you can sum up 'next step' in your own brain, if sex then i stand corrected.

[musiclove93]

I think you should focus more on the spiritual part of your relationship rather than the physical part.

[strike]

I think thats up to her.