Conversation trouble.

[-Matt-]

Ok, i won't bother explaining my situation up to this point, if you want you can read my other story in the depression forums.

Anyway the girl who I now call my girlfriend I have been chatting to over msn for 6 months beforehand. We would chat for hours about everything and anything.
When I see her in person I can show her my affection and love for her. But conversation gets exhausted rather fast, as we've touched on almost every topic before we started dating.

She's still a bit shy, so I feel it's really my place to keep things moving until we really get comfortable, as our relationship is still young.

Anybody got any advice on what I can do too fill gaps in between movies, eating etc?

[~Wayne~]

Just say what comes to mind, usually best bet.

[tf_arl_90]

Plan more exciting dates. Not that a movie and dinner isn't nice, but if you do something a little bit more unusual it'll give you something to talk about, reflect upon, etc. Do something new, something she isn't expecting.

[nyx]

Yeh I agree, take her bowling, or ice skating or something like that. It'll make talking much easier cos you'll just be messing around, and it'll be more memorable too.

But if you still find it hard try and think of more recent things that have happoened that you won't already have talked about, maybe recent tv programs, or news, or films you have seen. I don't know there muct be some things you haven't talk about cos topics of conversation are endless.

Good luck! :)

[VelvetOnda]

think of something you want to know about anything, and then ask it. maybe be like "I wonder why Disney almost never makes "real" movies?" She's not going to say, woah where did that come from your so wierd. She'll probably just repsond, and there you go. :)

[nyx]

Disney do make real movies =/