Anger issues

[iaxa]

umm well i have a friend who has anger issues but he dosent think he should go to a shrink what should i do to make him go?

[Shane]

Thread Moved to the Advice Section.

If you think they have anger issues then talk to them about it. Find out what they feel when they get so angry and it might help to resolve the problem. ;)

[iaxa]

okay ill try ... but when i try and talk about it to him he gets a bit crazy... and he hasnt got a-d-d or any of that shit

[blazeteendanny]

since i was 5 i've had a short fuse and a vicious temper... and im not proud of this but...now i can take loads but if my stack blows the poor bugger that lit my fuse is screwed...may it be a student, teacher...even a friend...and if people tried to talk to me about it it just wound me up even faster...but all i needed was a good friend, one that stuck by me no matter what

[~Wayne~]

I used to have serious anger problems but they subsided after a while, the person has to deal with it themselves, if you need any advice for this if you think its serious can always pm me

[Asi9ine]

Meh, I would say I do.

However, I only get it over the Internet or when I am playing video games. Never anywhere else. I get really mad and hit things. I split my knuckle punching the wall a couple of days back because some fag on KotOR kept killing me. So I cheated and beat him. It disturbs me when I start laughing and sticking my fingers up at a series of pixels on my screen when I do finally do a hard part of the game.

Ive had the urge to punch my laptop on various occasions, but I managed to stay controlled. It's more expensive and important to me.

[Chris]

I split my knuckle punching the wall a couple of days back because some fag on KotOR kept killing me. So I cheated and beat him. It disturbs me when I start laughing and sticking my fingers up at a series of pixels on my screen when I do finally do a hard part of the game.

God, dont ever get Burnout 3, i got to 97% complete and this c*** kept beating me by less than a second, broke my PS2 pad after the ump-teenth time of getting my arse kicked, lol

Seriously though, isnt it normal for most teens to go through a stage of anger? You turn out ok in the end though.

[Asi9ine]

God, dont ever get Burnout 3, i got to 97% complete and this c*** kept beating me by less than a second, broke my PS2 pad after the ump-teenth time of getting my arse kicked, lol Dude. That's why I cannot use my own PS2... all of the controllers are broken. :( Burnout 3 and The Getaway are to blame!

But you are right. They turn out just fine. Less hormonal, I guess. The way to solve an anger problem is not very simple, but be supportive to him and he will do just fine.

[iaxa]

LOLZ... kotor is very easy (i beat on hardest no FLUING or item duping)

[Morazain]

Anger is nothing more than a release of hormones that gives you more energy than you need or have use for becausde of this it tem,porely overcome our self control and makes us feel good.

So I say let yourself be angry and get rid of just enough enregy to get you self control back try to find things to vent it out on just make sure its noit your friends or family or in my evil grandad days his dog.

You can't swollow anger because it just build with the reasoning 'well if that wasn't enough maybe we need more energy'

The more energy the more anger.

[iaxa]

yeah even though my friend has the issues not me . but i do have a short fuse but not as bad as him!

[totz]

r you sure its not one of those 'friends' things where you say you have a friend that has a problem but it is actually yourself!!!!????? errr yeh talk to him...maybe see wot (watch dont try to annoy him) what gets him angry??!!! i dunno im stoopid!!!!

[Bite-me]

If i was you i wouldnt try and make him go because it could make him worse and may even lash out on you. But you should try and talk to him and say it would be a good idea and would make him a lot happier.