Should i patch things up

[adam_smith]

so me and my best friend have stopped talking completely . it all started when she broke up with me things seemed to be okay for a little while after that just generally talking and stuff then one day she asked me who i fancied reluctant to answer i said i had a little thing for her best friend jess, then i asked her do you mind (god knows why) and she completly flipped at me saying why do you think i would be jealous and i was like she your best friend i was just checking if it was cool with you, we had a small fight and then agreed to not talk about relastionship as it just ended in fights, then another few weeks pass and she finds this new guy she likes and she just kept going on and on about this guy (who if you asked me looks like the missing link between man and ape) and theres me not really talking and then she goes do you find it uncomfortable when i talk about boys, then i went tbh yes i do then started another fight by her saying well thats just bullshit cos you told me you liked jess (wait a sec didnt you ask me yeah i thought so) then things seem to go back to normal during the Christmas period and on Christmas day it actually felt like the stuff that had append hadn't basically it felt good. a few days into the new year we speak again and guess what we argue kinda she asked whts up with you brother i was like meh idk he is a retard but thats about it then she goes on to say well i saw him today and he said something i didn't appreciate and then i went well what did he say then she said he called me fat when i walked down the road today (yeah i believe he did that he even admitted it) then i basically went and this is my problem why and she says well sorry im just telling you god no need to bite my head off. this couldn't of come at a worst time for me ive been feeling really shit lately and for her to just take it out on me wasn't fair at all so basically for the past week almost havnt been speak so should i apologize for biting her head off or should i wait for an apology from her (which is about as likely as flying to the moon tbh)

[maximort]

Well my advice is is to just apologise to her and well... start from there again. I had experienced this once and the best thing to do is just apologise and ask for forgiveness. Just try to be friends with her and when you do argue just try not to bite her head off, because as they say "women are always right even when theyre wrong."

[adam_smith]

lol thanks man thats true ok i will do

[maximort]

Yeah like before one of my friends got dumped by her boyfriend and gave me the just desserts of horribleness. So I snapped at her, then she got upset so I apologised. To me no matter if its not your fault or not just apologise lol, except if you have a person you hate then just blame everything on that person *Devil Horns Emerging* lol

[nyx]

I think this is one of those occasions where you do just have to apologise. Girls are completely irrational after all. And you seem to be missing her, so if the easiest way to get her talking to you again is to apologise then I would. Although if she keeps doing similar thigs it might be bette to distance yourself, it'll only cause more hurt in the long run otherwise.

[adam_smith]

thank you clare you always full of great advice

[nyx]

No problem and why thank you :)

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

I don't think you should patch things up with her. She seems to have no consideration whatsoever for your feelings at all and she sounds kind of bitchy. No offense.
All I'm saying is you deserve better treatment so I wouldn't even bother with her if I were you.

[God.]

I think this is one of those occasions where you do just have to apologise. Girls are completely irrational after all. And you seem to be missing her, so if the easiest way to get her talking to you again is to apologise then I would. Although if she keeps doing similar thigs it might be bette to distance yourself, it'll only cause more hurt in the long run otherwise.

Couldn't have put it better myself.

However, I would have mentioned paragraphs as my first point. :p

[adam_smith]

Ok i shall remember tht for next time i have a problem
thanks guys

[nyx]

Couldn't have put it better myself.

However, I would have mentioned paragraphs as my first point. :p


Haha, woop :D

And you should have seen his last blog on myspace, it was crazy walls of writing :P

Hows it going Adam things back to normal?

[adam_smith]

it was like 1 in the morning i didn't really care about it tbh
and there great thanks