What Should I Do ?

[Chelza92]

It turns out that alot of my friends hate my boyfriend but i really love him, he just does these weird things, hes tried to stop but i dont think its working, i dont want to leave him, because i love him, what should i do ? =]

[Kate]

What kind of weird things? Does he have Obsessive Compulsive Disorder by any chance?

As for your friends, I wouldn't take their opinion into account too much, as after all they are not in your relationship and have no real say in how you operate it.

[Buttons93]

If they are proper friends, they will put up with your boyfriend, even if they don't see eye-to-eye with him. They should be happy for you. How long have you been with your boyfriend?

[Chelza92]

Well Kate, He's dislecsic ( soz cant spell ) and Tami ive been with him for only 3 months, but i really do love him. =] xx

[Buttons93]

Just cos he's dyslexic, isn't a reason for your friends to dislike him. You should talk to your friends and explain he makes you happy but you don't want to fall out with them over him.

[Chelza92]

Thats not the reason, its jus there think he's annoying i dont see it , so i dont know what there talking about, but they constantly say to me they dont like him and they say bad things about him, i dont say anything because i dont want an arguement, i know i should i just cant. =[ xx

[Buttons93]

I'm in a situation, similar to you .. my best friends usually criticise my other friends and they've started doing it about the guy I really like. You've just got to say you understand they don't like him and maybe suggest you don't talk about him around them and see them seperately? .. It is kind of sad though that your friends can't be happy for you.

[elaine010]

is this guy a cute one?
you know they could be planning something behind your back.
its happened to a friend of mine.

[VraiCanon]

Why do your friends dislike him?
I know it's difficult when friends dislike your boyfriend, but sometimes it can just be down to jealousy & at the end of the day you're the one who is in a relationship with him, not them.

[Chelza92]

Why do your friends dislike him?
I know it's difficult when friends dislike your boyfriend, but sometimes it can just be down to jealousy & at the end of the day you're the one who is in a relationship with him, not them.

Theres just something he does that annoy them, but i talked to him and ive talked to them, they havent changed both of them, but either way ive given up, they can be around each other, its just wen they talk about each which is the problem.
I dont think its jealousy i think its just, his attitude and the way he acts, although he doesnt act like this around me.

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

Just because he's weird and dislexic is no good reason for your friends to hate him. I think your friends are entirely shallow and aren't good friends if they're like that.
If you love him screw what anyone else thinks. If they're true friends they'd be happy for you, so maybe a new choosings of friends would be a good choice at this point?

[vicariouslyme]

your young.. being a lad myself i know that guys are immature and at your age girls just wanna grow up faster there is a conflict of interest there and it seems to be clashing.. your friends are just going through a stage when probably all boys there age will annoy them and they look for the older mature boy you have just got to stick it out or laugh it up because now you know why there being so stupid.. boys are boys and always will be silly and immature thats not gona change its probs just him.. you gota accept it maybe ask him to calm it down around them but maybe he knows it annoys them and that fuels him more lol i duno but i do know girls are like that and it will take a few years to grow out of just wait for it..