round 2 of hell

[Polskagurl2008]

What do you do when your parents never like your friecken boyfriends!!! ARgghhhhhh!

[mnloveheart03]

i fell somewhat related.
i dated this guy, jon.
and my mom broke us apart because he is a bad influence
and because of the kind of family he comes from.
it hurts alot, because i felt like i could actually love this guy.
we still talk but, its not the same.

dont make the mistake i made.
try it out with him, tell your mom the good things about this guy.
maybe she will give him a chance. and to get to know him. :]

[Rashella]

Tell your mother quite simply to butt out of your business.

Parents do tend to think that no ones good enough for their children but she has to learn to tolerate your boyfriends and let you make your own mistakes. She has a right to an opinion on your boyfriend and can tell you what she thinks, but it sounds like she's been emotionally bullying you to control who you date.

What kind of things does she do? Is it like constant snide comments or full on 'you're not going out with him tonight'?

Tell her that she's lucky you tell her who you date, and that you don't go behind her back. A lot of teenagers do. You get the point that she doesn't like him but if she continues with this sort of reaction to your boyfriends then you'll just stop telling her because you're tired of her immature behavior. After all, it's not her who has to date him.

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

Just because a guy has ADHD does not make him retarded, and just because a guy is overweight does not make him a slob.
You need to get up in your mom's face and tell her to stop trying to ruin your relationships and that she's acting like a fucking bitch, and if she doesn't like your relationships then she can stay out of your life completely.
Threaten to move out too if she doesn't stop, and if it comes to that you can stay with a friend or another family member because she sure isn't being supportive.

[Tamsin (:]

Just because a guy has ADHD does not make him retarded, and just because a guy is overweight does not make him a slob.
You need to get up in your mom's face and tell her to stop trying to ruin your relationships and that she's acting like a fucking bitch, and if she doesn't like your relationships then she can stay out of your life completely.
Threaten to move out too if she doesn't stop, and if it comes to that you can stay with a friend or another family member because she sure isn't being supportive.

Because that's going to solve it, is it?

Yeah, you need to talk to your mum about it, but not quite like that! You need to get her to understand exactly why you like him so much, and try and get her to see what he's actually like. But I don't think threatening to move out would help in the slightest! Tell her that you understand that she does want what's best for you, but you do really like this guy. If that all makes sense =S Good luck with whatever you decide to do about it :)

[Buttons93]

I'd like to see you go up to your mum and tell her she's acting like a fucking bitch, Jennifer, because really that won't make her understand how you feel about this guy. You should ask her to trust your judgement of this guy and tell her that he makes you happy and that you really like his personality.
I think the worst thing you could do is exclude your mum from your life, it would only make her worry more, so you should just talk to her about it all and make her see how much you want to be with him.