My Mum

[Mosh-Pit-Rocker]

Okay...
My mum has been getting on my nerves extremly badly lately and i dont know why.Little things like not going on the right channel or me havaing to repeat myself just sends me nuts.And speacially when she tells me to do something,then says it again like 2 seconds after she tells me.And singing when she listens to music..i've actually told her that i will pumel her into the wall if she doesnt shut up..i dont want to have to be saying that but its the only way she will shut up

Argh im really being put to the limits with her, i love her with all my heart but i cant stand her anymore.

help please

[Tamsin (:]

I think quite a lot of people go through stuff like this...my mum annoys the fuck out of me one minute, then I love her to bits again the next. Tell her that when she asks you to do something, you will do it, and she doesn't have to keep telling you. And aswell, just explain that when you have a go at her and have a bit of a short temper at times, you probably don't mean it. It's just the joys of being a teenager :D

[Mosh-Pit-Rocker]

well yea i do tell her that i'll do it but she still says it
and i just wanna hit her sometimes
lol joys of being a teenager lol

[anarchyrules]

i know that feeling quite well :)

[Tamsin (:]

Yeah, I know how you feel lol. I'd just try and get a bit of space from her, but don't distance yourself too much 'cos I think that'd just make it worse...if you know what I mean lol

[Kate]

I can empathise greatly. I think it just comes in phases during the time you are adolescent. You just have to try your best to ignore the seemingly irritating things she does.

I remember when I was in hospital I didn't want my mum anywhere near me, I found her presence so annoying. But if you look past the stupid things, and focus on what you love about them, you remember how great they are.
My mummy took me on a guided tour round the council estates of Greater Manchester on a boring Sunday once, she also calls the Sat Nav "Deirdre", and talks to her like she's a real person. Every time I remember that I grin, which makes me feel better about the way she talks too loud in public, or gets immature and tantrum-y in public.

Just remember, everyone feels like this about their parents sometime as a teenager, so noone is really looking at your seemingly embarrassing/irritating/loud/agrivating mum.
:D

[Mosh-Pit-Rocker]

yeaa...like last night i went into my room to listen to music and she likes "where you going" and she feels like i dont wanna be in t he same room as her
i think she is just worried that our realastionship will turn out like her 3 childrens are with her

[Innamorata]

My Mum drives me mad most of the time, I just have to put up with it.

[Tamsin (:]

Everyone's parents drive them completely mad at times, I s'pose you just have to learn to live with it, and try and work out any major problems you have with them lol

[anarchyrules]

i should probably get round to doing that sometime like with my mum as i went to hers the other night to get my dog and she started crying saying she didn't want me to go.....i should probably get things sorted

[Mosh-Pit-Rocker]

i wish my mum ,two sisters and brother would just make up
i hate it
i hate my life

[Tamsin (:]

I reckon you should just tell them how you feel...and actually make them listen to you! Lol, and I don't want to pry and ask why they've fallen out or whatever..so if it's over something quite petty, make them realise that it's petty and not worth it. If it's not so petty, then I'd just get them all to talk and stuff. Sorry that's not really much help, lol.

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

LOL! She sings. I find that funny sorry but I do haha.
If she enjoys singing that much just go into another room. If she's bothering you this much then why don't you just talk to her about it and tell her to stop getting on your nerves and stop bothering you.

[Mosh-Pit-Rocker]

lol i have told her that.
and yea i know that her singing is funny and i do laugh when she does do it..but not when im watching ether who's line is it anyway and top gear..lol

[Dani_x]

my mum used to drive me mad but we are ok with each other now, i guess it gets better as you get older. i still lose my temper with her easily if she bugs me. but she having to do everything for me for a few weeks because i have just had a op and cant do much, so i have to be thankfull that i have her and didnt push her away!