I want to remain single

[iaxa]

i want to remain single ... is this normal ? what are ya thoughts.

[God.]

Tis perfectly normal, not everyone wants the same thing all the time, otherwise the world would be a boring place. Many people enjoy single status....I know a good few people of whom a relationship has no appeal.

[iaxa]

yeah but its kinda sad like all my friends go off with there gfs and at the end im like shooting hoops with like the friends that i dont like that much in my group.

[God.]

It doesn't mean you're the one in the wrong, none of you are, there's no right or wrong answer to whether you should be seeking relationships.

[iaxa]

hmmms yeah but like all my friends that i actually get along with (and that are all with there gfs') are always hanging out together and i feel heaps left out.

[Shane]

i want to remain single ... is this normal ? what are ya thoughts.
Of course it's normal. And heaps easier. ;)

[Mamfy]

Just because they have girlfriends doesn't mean you have to. Everyone does things when they want. So have a girlfriend if and when you want to, don't let anyone make you feel stupid because you don't have one.

Live your own life, don't let people run it for you.

[~Wayne~]

Being single is perfectly fine as long as your content being like that

[iaxa]

point taken hmmms i will think about this!

[zyclonix]

You're probably still young. Don't worry. You'll start to get into the hang of it once you strike puberty. Time's on your side.

[iaxa]

dude i'm 15 ... im going through it ... or well nearly everyone my age is.

[zyclonix]

Not everyone sexually matures at the same rate. My friend didn't start dating until he was 23. He thought he was asexual for a time...

[iaxa]

yeah ... but most peeps do hit puberty around my age ...

[Sponge'K'nob]

being single is nothin to be ashamed of, you dont have to think as much before you do or say something, everything can be spontaneous

[Bob!]

Well actually what type of single are you gettin at dude?

Single as in not getting tied into a relationship, but being free to have flings of fun with whoever ya want.

Or Single as in not getting into a relationship or anything whatsoever, and just choosing to go without for a while?

Not that it matters, its all your choice, just helps to give a bit more insight.

[lilsawa2oo6]

hmmms yeah but like all my friends that i actually get along with (and that are all with there gfs') are always hanging out together and i feel heaps left out.

ive been through the same thing, and to be honest, i prefer bein single too. a few months ago (last year) mah best mate had a bf, hes a good mate but a lil too clingy, anyway, afta tym, her bf would get propa jealous wen her mates took her away from him, i couldnt even get time alone with her without him complainin to me. if you feel left out you should talk to your friends, let them know how u feel, it worked for me.

[iaxa]

hmmms but i dont know about other guys but i dont really talk about my emotions but thnx for the tip!.

[Mikhael]

Of course it's normal. And heaps easier. ;)

And cheaper ;) but dude its really up to you

[iaxa]

Well actually what type of single are you gettin at dude?

Single as in not getting tied into a relationship, but being free to have flings of fun with whoever ya want.

Or Single as in not getting into a relationship or anything whatsoever, and just choosing to go without for a while?

Not that it matters, its all your choice, just helps to give a bit more insight.


umm try the nerdy basket ball player who hasnet had a gf since year 5 (and yr 5 doesnt even count properly)

[iaxa]

And cheaper ;) but dude its really up to you

and how i look ... the chicks at my school are heaps stuck up they only go for the buff surfers or the lil whimpy tryhard emos

[iaxa]

its really hard to explian cause you have to be in my shoes to no how im feeling atm. you have to see it in my eyes thats all i can say.

[totz]

i see wot you mean...well sorta.....oh i hate.....things........you dnt need a partneer to make you happy!!!!?

[Odd_Girl_Out]

i want to remain single ... is this normal ? what are ya thoughts.

its perfectly normal... sometimes its just the fact that you havent found someone you really want to be with... im 16 and to this day ive still never had a boyfriend... but thats because ive always wanted to be single... ive always seen my friends going through rough break up... and ive always wanted to stay away from unnecessary things... but now ive finally found a guy i totally like and care about... even though he doesnt feel the same way about me... so i dont really want to be single anymore... and maybe its the same way with you... perhaps some day you'll find a girl that you truly fancy... and your mind will change?

[iaxa]

i doubt illl find a girl that is really nice all the girls where i live are all sluts... trust me . when i go to school dances i see them all trying basicly have sex on the dance floor!

[Odd_Girl_Out]

hahah i understand what you're saying... but you never know... a lot of the time when you're least expecting it you find someone... the guy that i like ive known for like 6 years or so... and only a few months ago i realized how much i like him... so you really just never know