Guys And Parents Problems!!!

[Irishgirl]

Hiyas all !!
Im 15 years old and I have an 8 month old son ( I know many of you will probably be against this, but plz.... try to understand)
At the start my boyfriend was great, he was really supportive and helped me and our son out a lot, but once my son reached about 3 months he seemed to give up. He was spending lots of time out with his mates and when he came to see my son he was always drunk or high on drugs. My parents were supportive through this but recently they haven't been helping either, I understand that they have twin boys who are only 16 months and need a lot of attention.
I feel really alone and I don't want my boyfriend to miss out on his sons life but at the same time I don't want him bringing up my son if he is going to take drugs etc
What should I do ??

[Sponge'K'nob]

how old id your boyfriend?
maybe you should advise him to go to one of those places to cut down on booze and drugs? what drugs is he on?
you need some you time, maybe set your son in a daycare for a few hours a week? that way your son can meet new people and you can get out with friends, and maybe go shopping or something? or help your boyfriend through what must be a tough time for him.

[~Wayne~]

The main problem it seems here that he wants to do what the other kids his age are doing, the main fact is that he has a child now and has to accept responsibility and I'd say you need to have a chat to him about that

[Charley]

i would talk to him and just say that he has got responisibilities now

[Silver_Bullet]

I say get him in rehab, it would be best for all three of you but if nothing works, get oout. No need to put your baby in danger. my children will always come first you know what i mean? Lates!