I had my first kiss when I was drunk...please help!

[Stephanie]

Okay, well I went to a party a couple of nights ago and got really, really drunk and to cut a long story short I ended up kissing this guy. This was my first kiss. I can barely remember it but I remember him telling me that I was doing it wrong and he kept giving me pointers like "Don't open your mouth so wide, not so much tongue, leave your teeth out of this" and so on...but even with all of his advice, I just couldn't do it. I told him that I had kissed guys before (because I was too embarrassed to tell him he was my first) and that the only reason I was so crap was because of my drunken state...

Okay, so I have two questions:

1. Do you think he would believe that, that was the case? That I was just crap because I was so drunk? Those of you who are experienced with kissing, are you still capable of kissing well when you're drunk?

2. Do you think that the way I kiss when I'm drunk reflects on how I would when I'm sober? The reason I ask this is because if it does then I seriously have no hope...I found it next to impossible to do it properly no matter how hard he tried to teach me...

[Shane]

Just be honest and tell him it was your first time.

[Bob!]

Hmm dont let bad experiences it bother you too much or you'll end up with a mental block thatl probably hinder ya performance in future.

Also you were probably worse cause you were drunk as you say, but still it was ya first, ya cant expect to get it really great first time, kinda hard rememberin mine but still, practice makes perfect.

Also tbh, if a guy was right for ya and loved ya enough, he'd tolerate it and work with ya till you got good at it, so nothin to worry about really, whether you were "bad" because you were drunk or not, it doesent matter because as I said, if they guy values ya enough, he'll help ya to do fine :)

[Boy_Wonder06]

my first kiss was rubbish, but trust me u'll get better with practise ... gd luck
ps everyone's kiss is unique !!!!

[claire]

everyones first kiss never goes to plan does it? i know mine didnt it was sloppy n wet n just horrible! practice does make perfect tho ;)

[Stephanie]

Well the problem is that I'm not going out with this guy...it was just a one off thing..and he's in my maths class and quite popular. I really don't know how I could ever face him again and I'm scared that he's going to tell other people how crap I was (and I wouldn't really put it past him).

So do any of you find that you can't kiss well when you're drunk or was it just because it was my first that I was so bad?

[Bob!]

Probs a bit o both Steph.

As I said don't worry about it, one ya find sumone whose really worth kissin, theyll be ok with ya and practice together till ya can both do it good :)

[PrincessAlice]

lol mine was terrible i can't even remember who it was with shame on me
i agree with bob get some practice in together

[Brianna.]

Well, personally, I can't even walk/talk while drunk...let alone kiss someone and make it good...haha.

I'd just explain to him that you were under the influence and it was your first one. I was sober for my first kiss and it still sucked. I think most people's first one is rather dissapointing.

[blazeteendanny]

i've never kissed any1...but i doubt ur kiss when ur drunk compares to a kiss when ur sober (i'd never know cus i've never been drunk)