Myy Boyfriend and the ex.

[KayteeLaLa]

Alright. So I've hit a bit of a dilemma.
I broke up with my ex (who i was with for 15 month and i really liked him) just over a year ago, And ever since then, I've been seeing him on a regular basis and we are good friends. We still had feelings for each other but we both never started anything again because it's complicated.
So then i met this lad a while ago and he is now my current 'boyfriend' I've been with him 3 weeks and i really liked him at first, But now thats starting to wear of and i got really pissed when he had a paddy when he found out i was still talking to my ex. He says he trusts me but not my ex and is always threatening to 'put his lights out' - saddo -
annd now after meeting up with my ex to discuss my problems at home, Cause i have always talked to him about it, I feel more distant from my current boyfriend and he just seems to annoy me, He keeps making bithcy comments to me and then wanting to spend lots of money on me and im like. No. Hmmph
i don't know weather its cause i realized i still like my ex.. or what
Hmm =S
Help?

[soulae]

Hey Kaytee,

I can relate when it comes to still having feelings for your ex and not being able to do anything about them.

Basically i think that the reason your not into your current boyfriend is because your not into him, Period. It doesn't sound like you are in any way shape of form impressed by him " 'put his lights out' - saddo". You may be using your feelings for your ex as an excuse to why you are doubting your current boyfriend, ,possibly being with this new guy makes you feel like you are moving on but hes not the right person to move on with. You still need to sort out whatever unresolved issues you have with your ex that is preventing you from being with him, otherwise all your future relationships will revolve around him.

Take Care
SA

[chloe1993]

I Think You Need To Have Time Being Single, To Think Bout Things..

Sounds Like Your Ex Is Much More Right For You, But its Wehter Things Will Work Out.?

[GemmaJamPot]

I agree with Chloe... your "relationship" with the current boyfriend doesnt seem to be going anywhere. You seem to still have a strong connection with your ex... you need to think about the reason why you broke up, and see if you could make things work again.. if thats what you want...?
X

[cutthehardline]

get out of that relationship straight away!... Don't risk him becomming jealous and agressive about it towards you

don't get back with your ex either, just wait for the right guy, when he comes along

P.s. my girlfriend talks to three of her ex's regularly and I'm not worried, we've been going out for one and a half years now lol