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xkate88x
May 15th '08, 08:08 AM
Well my boyfriend and I had sex on May 11. My last period started on April 28, 2008 and I'm 28 days.
Well usually girls ovulate on the 14th day so that would mean I was ovulation on May 12. And I know sperm can live inside for 3 days.
What are my chances? I do want to be pregnant. I'm ready to start a family with my boyfriend. I know it's way to early for signs, since it's only been 4 days.
But I've been cramping in my lower stomach, like I get a few days before my period, but my period isn't suppose to be till the 26. I have lower back pains.
But probably just in my thoughts. I don't know. I'm anxious. I wish I could find out I was pregnant right now, not wait till my period.
devilsangel141
May 15th '08, 08:37 AM
I have the same symptoms as you. I'm no use with period routines or whatever. Mine normally come the first week of the month. It's now 12 or 13 days late.
I'd wait and see if you're late then do a test if it is
xkate88x
May 15th '08, 01:45 PM
Well I shouldn't have pregnancy symptoms now. But I am having the early symptoms, probably just me thinking I do because I want to be pregnant.
Sore breast, not all the time, but most of the time.
Headaches
Lower stomach cramps
Lower back cramps
My breast feel bigger
That's it right now. But I shouldn't have those symptoms yet. My chances are good, I just hope I am. I'm not sure if my boyfriend is ready. He has kids with another girl he was with, and she did everything in her power to take his rights away. And he thinks I'm going to do that. But I wouldn't do that.
I know I have to wait till the 26 to see if I get my period, then wait till I'm a week late and then test. Because if I test now, it wouldn't show. I just hate waiting.
Does the first response work? I know they advertise that they can tell 5 days before your period. I have 11 days till I'm suppose to get my period. I hate waiting.
devilsangel141
May 15th '08, 02:51 PM
I have most of those symptoms aswell but I'm opposite- I don't want to be pregnant. I have literally JUST got a new job.
I have no idea about First Response but I know ClearBlue are a fantastic make. I'd give those a try. I'm doing another test tomorrow and getting myself seen by a doctor before I start my new job on Wednesday!
xkate88x
May 15th '08, 06:29 PM
Oh. I've been at my job for over a year and so has my boyfriend. So I am pretty good on the job area. He is thrilled I make more than him. But oh well.
I'll just have to wait to see if I get my period. I was just hoping I could test before my period and it would be accurate.
Leon
May 16th '08, 12:09 AM
My girlfriend's had all the symptoms signs of an upcoming pregnancy before then still come on her period, sometimes it can just happen regardless of whether you actually are or not.
Thesimpleone.
May 16th '08, 09:08 AM
be patient and get a pregnancy test. x
KatieMay-
May 17th '08, 06:28 PM
Get a test done, this happened to me, apart from I denied that I could possibly be pregnant, even though me and boy deep down knew it was very very likely.
I did a test, turned out positive then we booked me in for an abortion. Possibly the worst thing I ever did :/
xkate88x
May 18th '08, 12:36 AM
Well I still have 9 days till my period is suppose to come. So the test wouldn't be accurate.
But I don't know, it just feels like I am. Like someone women just know they are. Maybe it's just me wanting one who knows.
I would never get an abortion.
But knowing my luck I won't be. I just have the signs, and if I am pregnant it's been a week since I last had sex with my boyfriend. Just waiting till my period and see if I get it.
I hope I don't.
GemmaJamPot
May 18th '08, 10:15 AM
Perhaps you are just imagining the symptoms because you want them.. but then again, some people can tell early on... so I hope that its that.
Good luck :)
X
xkate88x
May 18th '08, 06:49 PM
Well today has been hell for me. I had to watch my brothers kids and then a few hours later I was either to dang tired to do anything or I was in the bathroom throwing up. Suppose to start my period next monday.
My breast are killing me, I don't know I got signs but who knows.
I'll keep updating once in awhile. I'll be upset if I get my period.
GemmaJamPot
May 19th '08, 12:51 AM
Aww... *Hugs* I hope you dont get it.
X
Leon
May 19th '08, 10:40 PM
Like I said, no point taking a test until the day you are due on at least because they can be up to 50/50% accurate only 2 or 3 days before you are due on.
Thesimpleone.
May 19th '08, 10:52 PM
the first time i had sex i didnt use a condom, and convinced myself i was pregnant and that i could feel it in my bones / wombthe next day lol
Haha, i want :/
-Michael-
May 20th '08, 10:27 PM
Just want to know, how old are you?
KatieMay-
May 22nd '08, 06:52 PM
Meh, I had my baby aborted at 10 weeks.
Most horrible thing I have ever had to do, regret it liek crazy but it was for the best.
Next time I will be so much more careful - even though we used a condom - and won't end a baby's life again. Never.
xkate88x
May 23rd '08, 01:10 PM
I am 19 years old, will be 20 this year. I'm not like most girls my age. I've had the job I'm at now since a month after I turned 18 and I make more than people 10-20 years older than me. And I'm also a boss at my job, so I would defiantley be okay in the money area. The only way I would get a different job is if I am pregnant, I would want a day job. But I wouldn't take another job unless I made what I do now or more. And it's hard to find jobs that pay half way decent here in Indiana.
I'll find out if I am Monday or not. That should be when I get my period. I'll most likely get it. And that's fine, I've thought about it. My boyfriend and I want to get moved into together first and start sharing bills and such before we think about that. And I know where he's coming from. He wants to get a better job before we decide to have a kid together. But either way I'll be happy.
secret_baby
May 23rd '08, 04:22 PM
Well that's great with your job and everything, I'm 19 and im still at school so a baby for me would be outa the question lol. I hope everything works out in your favour. :)
xkate88x
June 4th '08, 03:23 PM
Well I got a period on 5/25, but it only lasted 2-3 days. It was light and I had mild cramps. And when I get my period, the first day for me is hell. And the past 2 days, I've been really sick. I went home from work Monday early and called off Tuesday. I get the feeling like I'm about to throw up but I don't. My breast are tender and feel bigger.
I took a test a day befoe that light period came and it came out negative. But right now I don't have money to go get a test right now.
So who knows. I'm feeling a little better. But all I've been doing the past 2 days is sleeping or peeing.
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