problems-help

[bluesweet]

hi I hope someone can help me with current problems.The first problem is I've misscarried I feel like this is my fault as it is my body.I feel I should me able to control my body.I've spoken to the boy who wanted nothing to do with the baby eventhough we are friends .Anyway I've spoken to him who is trying to help.
Also i'm going my GCSE (i know every yr 11 is the same )but I feel like I am tried of it and it is pointless.
Futhermore I feel I have no friends or will lose them.Sometimes I feel they let me hang around them becasue they have to not becasue they like me
can anyone help please

[Rashella]

Lots of pregnancies result in miscarraige. Unless you act unresponsibly towards your body and baby, then there is no way it could be your fault. We don't have total control over our bodies.

Even so, you should discuss this with your doctor who can reassure you that it wasn't your fault, and then organize some counselling to help you deal with it. Or, you could talk to family or friends if you would prefer.

GCSE's are not pointless. It's only a short amount of time and then they're over forever. Just try your best, theres nothing else you can do. You might otherwise later regret not doing your best.

No one 'has' to hang around with you. If you have been distant with your friends lately because of the miscarraige, then they might think it is the other way around and you don't want to hang around with them. Make the effort to socialize with them and take an interest.