What should I do?

[bigcountry]

hi my name is justin im from tulsa,oklahoma im 18 and theres this girl that i work with i cant stop thinkn about her the problem is im very shy i told my friends that work with me that i liked her and they talked to her she told them she wold go on a date with me if i aked her i dont know if she ws just sayn this to be nice or what? well i cought her before she left and asked her if she wold like to hang out this weekend she said yes i got her number when should i call her friday? what do i say i really like her i dont want to mess things up my firebird got totaled and im stuck driving an 88 lincoln for now which is enbarrasing if she does go on a date with me were should i take her and will she run away when she sees my car?

[Charley]

what i would do is call her and just say the reason why you asked her out and tell her that you think she is a very beautiful person and you would like to get to know her better (not in the sexual way)

[zyclonix]

Don't beat around the bushes. Make your intentions clear from the get-go. A lot of amateurs believe they should first befriend the person before confessing their undying love. Don't do that... unless you wanna get slapped.

[bigcountry]

one thing is though she doesnt really acked like she likes me in a bf gf kinda way i dont know if im just being parinoid, should i call her tonite or friday, i dont know if it would be a good time to go anywere it just snowed

[Bob!]

Yeah, she said she'd go on a date with you. So if you like her that much, go for it dude :)

And dont worry about ya car and other crap, you've already got a good chance that not many others get straight away, just meet her and go with the flow and try and make it the best ya can, also ring friday.

[bigcountry]

i just called her and asked her if she was free for tomarro nite she said i dont know what does i dont know mean is that mad? well i told her ill call her again tomarro what should i do

[Guest]

i just called her and asked her if she was free for tomarro nite she said i dont know what does i dont know mean is that mad? well i told her ill call her again tomarro what should i do

If you want our suggestions, could you please write more clearly and elaborate on details?

[Charley]

ask her whether she likes you in the way u like her

[Mamfy]

You should say, sure, well, call me when you're free okay?

And then she'll call you when she wants to be with you

[So Smithy]

Yo Im 14 no love expert i mean i have the same problem with girls i get too embarassed and i have a dissablitty but i know shes likes me but i dont know what to do so if you do go alrite with the girl give use a few tips on how to talk to em

[CraigYohn!]

Go for it, just dont tell her you totalled your other car...unless its already too late, probably is lol.

[Bob!]

O come on yorkie whats the car got to do with anythin lol, she's not gunna dump him for THAT. :P

[Silver_Bullet]

Man, calm down, there is no emergency, I drive a 89 buick lesaber, they dont care un less their golddiggers or very conceeded. A car is a car as long as you dont have to walk a mile for a dqate you know? Call her but not so much at first, just get comfortable. I was always embaressed till a couple weeks after the first date but its cool, yoiu know? Just, be yourself no matter what car you drive or where you take her even if its to a hot dog stand. (Ive done that before,lol!) Well good luck!

[bigcountry]

ok she wants to hang out with me next weekend im goin to take her to the club only one problem I dont no how to dance, if i take a couple of extacy pills then go to the club then ill b allright but i wont ever do that again because i overdosed friday nite

[Mamfy]

Don't take her to somewhere you're not going to enjoy.

Why not take her out for a meal? It's the perfect place to talk and get to know each other. Going to a club would mean you either can't dance and look like agoon or take drugs which is highly dangerous.

DO you really want to risk your life? I think not.

[bigcountry]

were would be the perfect place to take her out to eat

[Mamfy]

A nice restaurant

[Sponge'K'nob]

i agree with everyone else.
dont worry about the car, tbh girls don't give a shit.....its a car, it takes you places!

[Bob!]

Also resortin to takin drugs so you can try to be good is a low way to go tbh lol.

Leave em and be yersen, then if it goes well, its honor on you.

[bigcountry]

i have a question what do girls look for in guys? i want a girlfriend i dont think im bad looking im 18 6'2 195pounds i do have a baby face so that make me look like im 16 im really nice caring, but most of my friends treat girls like sh#t and they get alot of them y? this one girl who i only met about 4 times said i wasnt her type and im like a brother to her, i dont know what my problem is, girls help me out here what am i doing wrong i dont really care about sex i just want a relationship with a girl 1st, i watch that movie hitch all the time trying to get typs doesnt help me much

[Mamfy]

You have to be confident and funny. Girls like a guy who can start conversation and make a joke about things.

[bigcountry]

well im shy, and sometimes just dont know what to say but im not like super shy as to were i wont talk to a girl but realy i want to know is what to girls look for in guys is it all about looks??

[Mamfy]

No, as I said above girls like confidence and a sense of humour. Some girls only care about the looks but me personally, look deeper than that. I like someone who can hold aconversation and make me laugh and someone who actually listens to me.

If you look at her when she's talking and listen to her then she'll feel wanted.

[bigcountry]

thanks for your advise

[Mamfy]

No problem :)

[Lindsay]

if she really likes you she probably won't care about your car. i know i wouldn't.