PDA

View Full Version : Just need a little help again =(



TinksX
June 10th '08, 07:08 PM
It's just, i have just ate dinner and i feel so uncomfortable with food in me i'm hating it. People are saying that i've lost to much weight and saying there's nothing of me and my mum has been asking really awkward questions about how much i'm eating. I feel like im being overcrowded by them, especially my mum i don't want her alway down my throat about food, i know how to handle myself.

i'm a big, ugly girl and i have accepted that and that's why i'm changing so i can be happy finally.

I really want to throw up what i've eaten but something is fighting against me, it's just making me sicker and i have exams tommorrow.

Have you any idea how i can not feel like this, i can't stand food part of me felt ridiculous when i was crying cos i ate a slice of pizza and something else in one day, to other people that seems so little but on that day i had let myself down. i don't want to go out and get help with professionals that's not what i like.

Please help. I need it

Rashella
June 10th '08, 09:33 PM
I really want to throw up what i've eaten but something is fighting against meYes - Common sense.

Your parents care about you, and when they say that there is nothing left of you, they are probably right. Parents do know best sometimes. Judging from your dp, you are not 'big' or 'ugly' and these thoughts are just in your head. Eat normally, listen to that 'something'. Don't let the not eating get out of control.

You should tell your parents the truth about what you have been eating, don't fob your mum off with lies or half truths. You need an outside, non biased and caring viewpoint of yourself and body.

green hooligan
June 11th '08, 12:07 AM
Yes - Common sense.

Your parents care about you, and when they say that there is nothing left of you, they are probably right. Parents do know best sometimes. Judging from your dp, you are not 'big' or 'ugly' and these thoughts are just in your head. Eat normally, listen to that 'something'. Don't let the not eating get out of control.

You should tell your parents the truth about what you have been eating, don't fob your mum off with lies or half truths. You need an outside, non biased and caring viewpoint of yourself and body.

Eating disorders are something we did not have fifty years ago so why now?

I do know why and suffer from eating disorders myself. In fact, it all started around thirty years ago.

There are probably millions of people globally suffering from eating disorders but some are less affected than others. Older people will be less anxious about it than teens or pre-teens due to their desire to retain good shapes.

I will soon start to campaign against medical epidemics but would advise you to eat like a bird. Birds peck around here and there rather than sit down at a table three times daily. Eat anti-oxidants and dump the cooking habit. Mother Nature might then treat you more favourably.