I have a condition and love a girl, how do I approach her?

[So Smithy]

Hi about 3 months ago my m8 said come to this club i go to on saterday so that i would be happier than just sitting in the house, so i went to tis club every saterday morning i go and theres a girl there same age as me i dident like her a first but then we played table tinnis just the two of use about 2 weeks l8er and we were laughing and i was mamking her laugh to and then i started to fall in love and so i kept it to my self up to now, iv got the feeling she likes me too cos shes talking oo me more than ever and we allways laughing but cos i have a dissabillity witch afects my skin but is getting better as the years go on, but im looking just normal now but..... iv never had a gf and dont know how to kiss or anything and dont know how to ask her or what to do help me please:sadangel:

[Mamfy]

What kind of disability? And if she loved you then it really shouldn't matter if you have one or not.

[So Smithy]

i have a skin dissabillity but its less seeable as i get older but i dont know how to ask her cos i get embarrased

[Luke]

My Mum has a skin disorder. What's yours called?

[So Smithy]

Er i dont know the name its so long but ill try and spell it out epidermoses bolosis but the short name is EB i got a lot of freinds so its not a eww ook at him look

[Brianna.]

Epidermolysis bullosa?

[Luke]

Er i dont know the name its so long but ill try and spell it out epidermoses bolosis but the short name is EB i got a lot of freinds so its not a eww ook at him look

Don't worry about it then. You haven't got two heads or anything lol.

Just approach it with confidence and you'll be fine.

[Mattimadhead]

OOOOOOOoooo so spill the beans paul who is it?? and yeah man go for it! if you havent had a gf before its worth a shot! whatve you got to loose?

[So Smithy]

matti she lives in casleton and is call _______ well jus cant tell yuo that

[So Smithy]

Yo im trying tommor peple

[God.]

w00p. We're all rootin' for ya mateybob. :D

[Bob!]

Hmph, unfortunately I also suffer in a similar way. http://img356.imageshack.us/img356/2224/sleep.gif

Also the term is more of a condition, not a dissability, sounds better at least.

I would normally have opinions and logic to offer as it is easy to build on those that distinctly have the potential but with this I am sorry, I do not have the answer.

My only advice is to listen to these lot, heed their words, try and not let it hold ya back and hope it goes well for ya, mebbe ya can make it.

[Richiecroft]

The only advce ive got is to, take every step as a pace of your own, don't let anyone trick you into anything, or rush you into anything. Also, life is tooo short to be worrying about things, fair enough its a disablility, but as you said it goes with age. If this girl doesn't wana be with your or whatever the probs, she has a serious issue to be perfectly honest with you! Fair enough you like her, but sometimes these "other" people don't you the same way back! (Sorry if i've hurt ya, but thats the honest opinion!)

[Shane]

Let us know how things are going. ;)

[rondo]

just go for it, be confident,im sure she will like you

[kristina_39]

seriously... dont let anything hold you back ... live life to the fullest.. its too short to worry,.. where you gonna be if you never try...? take a chance.. its worth the try.. good luck hun....

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

Don't let a dissability make you feel like it disables you from falling in love with a beautiful wonderful person, because inside you are a warm fuzzy person and that's all that matters.
Have confidence and ask her if she would like to go out and do something sometime, go to a dinner, movie, anything that might arouse her interests.
Always be a gentleman and hold the chair out for her, pay for her, hold the door open, just for hints to really intrigue her, and as for the kissing, the rest will take care of itself!