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BloodyReminders
July 3rd '08, 01:17 AM
i dated this guy off and on since we met in Kindergarten. Well, this year we dated for 7 months and he cheated on me (which makes me wonder if he ever really loved me in the first place) anyway thats not the problem. i now know that this relationship is over. well, here's the big part. i think im in love with one of his best friends. all i can do is think of him, dream of him, want to be with him, go see him, its all i think about. he's a year younger than me but i dont believe age matters in a relationship (to a point) anyway. we met 7 months ago and im falling hard. everyone tells me to make a move but one guy (who is also friends with him) told me recently that he's a bit of a "man-ho" i dont wanna believe it tho.
he works at walmart, so i go see him quite a bit since i live right close to it. i met up with him one day when he went on break and he walked around walmart and talked to me and my family forever. then recently my ex (his friend) has been running his mouth to him and i was worried that he didnt wanna have anything to do with me. but then he told me that he stood up for me, that he cared about me.. then i gave him a hug and HE TOLD ME HE LOVED ME! but i dont know if he meant it in a friendly way or if he meant it in a different way. im so confused! i've tried having friends talk to him and figure it out but when my friend (also a guy) see's him, he blinks and he's gone! he's hard to catch sometimes. but what should i do? would my ex complicate this? should i try to date him? or should i just remain friends with him? :please!:

greyfaerie10
July 3rd '08, 08:14 AM
Go after him! I deffinately think you should go for it. You like him and it looks like he likes you to. If you leave it as it is then you'll only regret it later. I don't think your ex will be a problem, plus you already know that this boy will stick up for you against your ex. Try just going out on a proper date or something and who knows what'll happen...
Just go for it.
If it all goes well please post back, I'd like to know.
xxx Greyfaerie10

Tim
July 3rd '08, 10:03 AM
I think you should go for it, but just be cautious about it, tell him how you feel and that he doesn't need to worry about your other male friend.

VraiCanon
July 3rd '08, 10:07 AM
Friends.

BloodyReminders
July 3rd '08, 01:02 PM
I'm going to see him after work today.

-Luke-
July 4th '08, 08:46 PM
Let us know how it goes :)
We're rootin' for ya!

BloodyReminders
July 18th '08, 02:52 AM
well, the guy is completely ignoring me. i have a new bf and he's completely ignoring me too. the only person that is talking to me is my ex boyfriend Justin (not the one who cheated) so im screwed basically.

conor
July 29th '08, 12:45 AM
You were going out with guys in kindergarten? :P
That's what it looks like you said XD

n0iZe
July 29th '08, 01:09 AM
Conor, you look too much like Condor. You're going to make me confused.

xoDoLLFaCexo
July 29th '08, 01:50 AM
I Think you should go ahead. Your heart's already in the "falling for him" mode.. so it won't hurt to give him a try, besides your done with your ex, and its always good to move on and see whats really out there. If your ex interferes...ignore him...he isnt part of your life anymore and you should care less of he says crap about you =) GooD LuCK!!

babygirl2008
July 29th '08, 02:29 AM
go after him becuase u might regrete it