I've run out of tears, time to make a decision

[solepureskillz]

I dated a girl for 1.5 months before school ended last year (college) and we're gonna be back on campus August 20th. I swear to everything I know, that was the happiest time of my life. Problem is that summer came, she took a 2-week school course on a Caribbean island and kissed a guy. She told me a week after she got back, then later that day dumped me. We still talk on the phone for about an hour a day, and God I can't think of her as my ex... much less as somebody else's girlfriend.

My choices are:

A) cut all connections with her so I can get over her. While she's in my life, I will love her, and that can't be helped

B) tell her that the only way I'll accept us being apart is to cut connections, and make it an ultimatum to revive our relationship.

She dumped me because of guilt and emotions brought on by what she did in San Salvador and how I was very optimistic about the whole situation. She admitted to still feeling strongly about me (she said she still loved me), but I'm afraid that the more time I let pass by, the weaker her attraction to me will become. Our relationship is LDR during the summers, but I can go visit her. I can see her and remind her why I care about this so much.

[kiahrose31]

i think you may need some time apart from her to see if what you feel for her is real. she probably needs it too, because it seems as though she isnt sure of her feelings.
and even if it doesnt work out, you'll be ok.

hope this helped.

[solepureskillz]

Advice always helps. Thank you Kiah. Never what a young-and-in-love guy wants to hear, but it's probably the truth.

[GemmaJamPot]

Im sorry to hear about your situation hun... its not what you wana hear, but Kiah is right :\
Unfortunatly you are going to have to move on one way or another... I do think you need to know exactly what she is feeling though, to put a proper reason to why she dumped you. If you see her and speak to her perhaps suggest a break from connections to see how much you mean to each other.. and if you both still love each other after a break, then you shouldnt let go. :\

*Hugs*

X

[kiahrose31]

Advice always helps. Thank you Kiah. Never what a young-and-in-love guy wants to hear, but it's probably the truth.
anytime matey
hope it all works out for you

[Glamour_Love]

A.

[solepureskillz]

I see... if everyone says something, it has to be worth considering. She hinted for me to expect something over the mail in the next 2-3 days, so I'll wait until I see what she sent. I'd hate to tell her to gtfo my life (in a nicer way of course) and then get a love letter or an apology+make-up request, ya know?

It just sucks living in a new state where you don't know anybody and nobody will hire you and all you have to do is look forward to things you know will be waiting for you (my college, my friends, my job, and sadly what was the best part of them all - my gf).

[GemmaJamPot]

Awww.... yeah I do recommend you wait until you get it... and then depending on what it is, see where it goes from there. I hope it is something good hun.

*Hugs* Good luck.

X

[g36calex]

Get some time away from her. nothing more nothing less.