Watching Masturbation

[mymangotree]

The other day my boyfriend suggested that the next time I'm at his place, he can show me how he would normally masturbate so I can get an idea of what feels good. I guess it's a good idea, but to me it seems a little 'weird'... I don't really have a problem with it, it's just, yeah... a bit weird. I told him that would be o.k. but that I'm not at a point where I want to show him how I do it. To me it seems like something that is very personal - something that is just for you. How many of you feel the same? Just out of curiousity.

[y0$hii]

Your right it is personal but.... it depends how long you've been together and how serouis the realtionship is.

The longer your with someone you seem to be more confidante around them e.g. I was with my ex girlfriend for about 6-7 months and I could happly walk around the house naked with out feeling any sort of embarrassment.

[mymangotree]

We've been together for 5 months. It's serious because of the fact that we're both very loyal/devoted to each other but at the same time we're just having fun/experimenting because we're young... 16 and 17. I think we can both see this relationship lasting for quite a time to come... but yeah, neither of us are at the stage that you mentioned. I feel too self concious.

[ficti0n]

The longer your with someone you seem to be more confidante around them e.g. I was with my ex girlfriend for about 6-7 months and I could happly walk around the house naked with out feeling any sort of embarrassment.


hahaha same here, after a while you just dont care anymore.

[g36calex]

Its personal but the level of it defers on each person. I'd say us guys are more comfortable earlier on, not all but I'd say majority.

[MissSunshine]

My b/friend once suggested that i masterbated in front of him that was only the 2nd time sleepin with him so obviously i said no!
weve been together for over 4 months now and i think id still b uncomfortable with it

[y0$hii]

We've been together for 5 months. It's serious because of the fact that we're both very loyal/devoted to each other but at the same time we're just having fun/experimenting because we're young... 16 and 17. I think we can both see this relationship lasting for quite a time to come... but yeah, neither of us are at the stage that you mentioned. I feel too self concious.


Well when you break the ice e.g do it once lol it becomes easy after that.

[Glamour_Love]

I like to do this in a relationship, you really do learn exactly what your partner does and doesn't like. Don't worry about the fact that you don't quite feel ready to show him how you masturbate, just tell him what you've said on here, I'm sure he won't mind.

[VraiCanon]

To be fair its one thing showing what you like but I wouldn't want to watch my boyfriend masturbate. That's his thing. Just like my masturbation is my thing.
Some people find it a turn on, I find it pretty odd.

[-Luke-]

I think it just depends how comfortable you are around him. If you're up for learning new things about each other then go ahead, but if you're not sure, think about it again in a few months.
I would find it uncomfortable, do you just sit there and watch? What if you got bored? Do you lie, sit, stand? Lol.

[Eric]

Yea what luke said,
depends on how comfortable you guys are with each other.
maybe you should just let him know how you feel about the situation.

[-Luke-]

I mean, i'm comfortable around my girlfriend to walk around in my boxers, but not to sure about nude, and we've been together for 2 1/2 years,
It varies with people.

[YFSD]

wouldnt wank infront of a girl but i love it whne a girl does it. i know thats contradictory btw