Help! I'm inlove with..

[mean_girl]

A guy who already has a girlfriend.. even worse he's my boy friends best mate.. :(
I know this is soo wrong but I have the biggest crush on him.. and I dunno what to do cause it really gets me..
He's very very cute, hot, adorable.. such a gentlman when it comes to treatin the ladies.. He makes me smile and I can stare at him for hou-rrrrs.. !! I won't find anyone as special as him.. I get a little depressed when he's far away..
Fist I was just attracted to his appearance.. but now after spending time with him I got to know a really great person and I can't get him out of my mind..

How wrong is this? I've been with my boy friend for almost a year now I don't know if I love him but it seems liekt he rightest thing to do.. I don't know how it's goign to be without him and I don't want to.. but how come I really like his best friend?

I'm not doing anythung wrong I can't help those feelings but what am I supposed to do now after knowing that I have them..?

ARGHH just sooo friggin messed up.. I was depressed this morning cause last night was the last time I'm goign to see his best friend let me call him A.. for umm a long time cause he's goign for a vacation far away..

What to do..??

[piax]

To be honest, I think if you have feelings for another person you shouldn't really lead your boyfriend on because it's not fair on him.
But then again, I'm not suggesting you dump him for his friend because 1. that will he hard for him to take and quite a harsh thing to do and 2. he may really love his girlfriend and you really shouldn't go about breaking them up.
Maybe it would be best if you forget about the both of them.. and try and move on.

[n0iZe]

To be honest, I think if you have feelings for another person you shouldn't really lead your boyfriend on because it's not fair on him.
But then again, I'm not suggesting you dump him for his friend because 1. that will he hard for him to take and quite a harsh thing to do and 2. he may really love his girlfriend and you really shouldn't go about breaking them up.
Maybe it would be best if you forget about the both of them.. and try and move on.

Sounds good to me.

And being led on sucks balls. <_< No point in being with someone if they don't like you.

[piax]

Sounds good to me.

And being led on sucks balls. <_< No point in being with someone if they don't like you.

Exactly.
Too much pain for nothing.

[mean_girl]

I don't like the sound of it lol.. I do have feelings for him.. and maybe this is just a crush that will go by quickly.. Why can't I try harder and work this out with him? I mean we've been together for a whole year and yeah sometimes I don't feel like I love him but some other times I do..
I don't want to break up ! At least not now..

[piax]

So you're staying with him just for the sake of having someone?

[VraiCanon]

If you have strong feelings for someone other than your boyfriend, surely this is saying you dont really want to be with him?
get over the other guy and to be honest I would end things with your boyfriend, its unfair on both of you if you're lusting after someone else.

[mean_girl]

lol.. I'm over him.. I've talked to him and.. umm yeah I just am..
I won't leave my boy friend.. I think he knows I have little crushes every now and then..
But i will always love him.. I've got to know someone very special <3..

[mean_girl]

Well thanks guys hehe.. And yeah I'm not breakign up because this is not worth breaking up for..

[jcbangl]

if u stay with someone for the sake of having someone then u both will be miserable that is what i did and boy was it miserable for me i thought about other guys all the time when i was with this one guy. i hated the way he was to me. he would try to do stuff to me i didn't want done to me then i broke up with him and went out with someone else of course i was planning on it for like weeks and also i was cheating on him anyways. i just wanted him to stop buggin me to go out with him coz i just came out of a relationship and i didn't want to get with anyone else coz i was upset about having to brake up with this one guy.

[houyin]

knowing who you really love is important.

[Shane]

A guy who already has a girlfriend.. even worse he's my boy friends best mate.. :(
I know this is soo wrong but I have the biggest crush on him.. and I dunno what to do cause it really gets me..
He's very very cute, hot, adorable.. such a gentlman when it comes to treatin the ladies.. He makes me smile and I can stare at him for hou-rrrrs.. !! I won't find anyone as special as him.. I get a little depressed when he's far away..
Fist I was just attracted to his appearance.. but now after spending time with him I got to know a really great person and I can't get him out of my mind..

How wrong is this? I've been with my boy friend for almost a year now I don't know if I love him but it seems liekt he rightest thing to do.. I don't know how it's goign to be without him and I don't want to.. but how come I really like his best friend?

I'm not doing anythung wrong I can't help those feelings but what am I supposed to do now after knowing that I have them..?

ARGHH just sooo friggin messed up.. I was depressed this morning cause last night was the last time I'm goign to see his best friend let me call him A.. for umm a long time cause he's goign for a vacation far away..

What to do..??
Tell everyone how you feel and explain it's how you feel, it can't be hepled and see what conclusion people come to. They might understand, they might even help you and things might turn out for the best.
Not good to live a lie. :/