Girlfriend

[y0$hii]

=O former staff looking for advice? i'm not sure if this is allowed but still......

yeah well I don't know who else to talk too so =/

Couple of months back my (ex) girlfriend split up with her boyfriend who she was with for about 4 years =/ the thing is though they split up because he has cheated on her more times then you can believe and when they finished he even admited too seeing other people behide her back.
Then I come on the scene and weve been fine but recently shes been getting phone calls off him and texts saying "I love you" and all this "take me back I can't live without you"

Now she's split up with me because she says she doesn't want a bf so I don't know what too do, because I just feel like going round this kids house and given him a kicking, but I don't want to get arrested and all because I do boxing and i'm a former kickboxer i'll get hammered by the law =/

[n0iZe]

Blah, drama. I don't know. Try giving her some time.

[y0$hii]

Unless you been in love, don't even try and understand ok?

[n0iZe]

Look dude, if you don't want my advice, don't be an ass about it. t_t.

[InLoveWithYoohx]

Just give her some time too think she may come around and dont say i have never been in love because last night i lost the person i love with him sayin he dint want a gf. i think if you give her some time she will realise what shes lost

[River]

I'd give her some time, just to clear her head and decide what she needs to do.

They were together for a long time and even though she's moved on, messages like that will take it's toll on how she is feeling.

I think having her own space would be good for her, and maybe you.Then you know that when/if she comes back to you it's of her own choice.

I hope this sorts out for you, really do.

Sorry I can't help more x

[houyin]

Personally, i think the main reason behind is that she was cheated by her ex for too many times. This resulted her to lose confidence on guys.

Not asking you to leave her alone, but well. Just treat her as friend, a really close and caring friend. Eventually she'll understand that you're not e same as her ex.

Remember, dont rush for it and she'll know the importance of you, one day :D

[kiahrose31]

like everyone else has said, she needs some space to work things out. she's probably got a million things running through her head right now and you going and knocking this guy out is not going to ease her mind. just let things be for now.

[VraiCanon]

What can you do? She doesn't want a boyfriend. Granted, it's probably her ex's doing, she probably wants him back. I doubt she's over him. Give her time etc etc but she's probably wearing rose tinted glasses so it's probably better to try and get over her.

[zakarius]

i gotta say i agree with vrai..

chances are even if she doesnt go back out with this guy, it wont be the same between you and her again, as she'll want him back for a while, 4 years is a hell of a long time and i doubt she'll be properly over him for a very long while

sorry dude =(

[Shane]

Give her soem time. That's all you can do. She needs to make her own choices mate, sorry. :/

[y0$hii]

it's 100% over now she sent me a text basicly saying delete my number its ova don't speak too me again =/

all she had to add really was fuck off and die lol

thanks all anyway, just gota get over her now =)

[VraiCanon]

Oh dear :( better off without her then babe. You'll get over her in time.

[y0$hii]

yeah shes being a propa dick about things like, Party on this week =).

[Glamour_Love]

I hate it when people can go from being in a relationship with someone to turning into a complete prat as soon as you break up, so childish. You're doing the right thing getting out and having fun with your mates, best way to keep your mind off it :)

[y0$hii]

I can't understand that either which is what she is doing at the moment, Don't text me again! delete my number! childish tbf shes 18 =/

[-Luke-]

Aww, sorry to hear that mate :(
Party to sort yourself out? :-P

[Tim]

Yeah man shes not worth it if she dumped you for that guy, get out there and enjoy yourself!!! Time does heal all wounds

[zakarius]

i hate it when people do that, as tbf it wasnt ur fault things didnt work out so she shouldnt hate you for it

im sorry to hear its over tho mate, sure it cant be hard for ya to find anuva lass like

n a party is generally a good cure for the old low patches (Y)

[y0$hii]

I've never been this gutted before, it has really hit me her not being in my life anymore, just little things like sleeping in bed alone and stuff, o well, thanks all anyway =D

[-Luke-]

Sleep with a pillow?

[y0$hii]

Not a time for smart comments ;)

[-Luke-]

They have them in Japan :D
Pillows with arms, just like the real thing!
=O

[y0$hii]

Erm I'm confused are you mocking my country? lol

[-Luke-]

Of course not!
I pratcially worship the Asian culture!!!

Just thought the pillow with arms was a good idea...obviously not

[y0$hii]

dude you make me laugh some times when the things you say aren't even funny lol

[-Luke-]

Thats my purpose ;)