Urgent Help Required

[smed125]

I was at a mates house and i was chatting with his brother and he kissed me passionately, im 18 ands hes 14 what shall i do

[Leon]

Well, what do you want to happen?

[smed125]

i dunno hes hot and all but i duno do u think i should go 4 it

[Leon]

How come you're i8, but you're age at the side says 17.

Anyway, these days people look upon 18 and 14 together being wrong, it's just a way of life now.
But if you really want something out of it then ultimately it's up to you, but I think you should talk to him first before you do anything.

[smed125]

what shall i say

[Leon]

Well firstly you need to find out how serious he actually is. Not meaning to be patronising but at 14, not many people are on the same maturity level for a relationship as an 18 year old is.

Then the rest depends on what you really want to do.

If you don't want anything to happen just explain to him, although don't say it's because of the age because that's the last thing he'll want to hear (especially when you know inside that you find him attractive), but just let him down gently that you're not wanting a relationship at the minute or something more gentle like that.

If you decide you want to go for it, I don't really think I need to advise you on what to say there.

But if I were you just take a bit of time to think it all over.

[smed125]

thanks 4 all your help

[gemsy]

Just remember that if you do get together or whatever, then it still won't be legal for him to have sex :]

[Leon]

thanks 4 all your help
Let us know how things go.