Umm... what to do?

[TheOne]

Right. Well.
My friends bf was cheating on her, so she broke up with him.
He got pissed off that she moved on so quickly.
He said really mean things about her.
I sent him a message telling him to shut up.
He swore at me a bit.
I swore back.
He called her a bitch and a slut a few times and said he hopes she kills herself.
He wants to fight me.
I'm 16 and small, he's 18 and a little large.
I want him to hit me during IT in two days.
Because I have a friend who will beat him within an inch of his life if he does.
Any tips that might help me out a bit would be good.

[Shane]

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[jcbangl]

wow, he needs to learn that some move on faster then others and some are slower. don't fight him. he can go to jail if he throws the first punch at u for hitting a minor... if he lays a hand on u turn his butt in. he would be touching a minor on ur part and u r also a girl soo...

[gemsy]

Mannn. Why doesn't he pick on someone his own age and size?
And, don't mean to sound b**chy, but why did you get involved in the first place, if it was between him and your friend?

[GemmaJamPot]

Yeah I dont recommend fighting him.
Its nice of you to stand up for your friend, but it is between them tbh.
Im not really sure what I should say to you, coz if he has his mind set on fighting you, I doubt you saying "lets not fight" will stop him :\
You say about hoping he hits you in IT... But is it really fair getting another friend involved? He could get hurt, or in trouble, because of you stepping in.
Well.. sorry I didnt have advice, but good luck with whatever happens!

X

[solepureskillz]

Wow, sounds just like the guy who my girlfriend cheated on me with. He's 5 years older than me and her, and he uses that as a justification to do what ever he wants. Of course I would be able to hold my own, but I would rather not get involved with violent, stupid and reckless people because - quite frankly - you could very well get hurt. Bad.

My advice would have been to stay out of it. If your friend tried to use you as a shield in this situation, your best option would have been to say no. Since you're already balls deep, have YOUR friend present when the jocky 18-year old wants to kick your ass. He should be less inclined to want to hurt you.

Or if you want to really hurt him for the long run, have 2-3 friends hiding behind bushes when you confront the other guy. Let the other guy kick your ass, and BAM you have an assult case on a minor. You will need your 2-3 friends as witnesses or else there's no evidence.

GL in doing the right thing.