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bella-bambina
October 24th '08, 05:31 AM
I have a friend who is in love with the perfect guy, but recently he has gotten physical with her... it was only once, but she is so scared that he is going to do it again. I don't know what to do..
how do i help her?
colored_zebra
October 24th '08, 06:28 AM
why doesnt she just tell him how she feels? if he really is perfect, he'll understand

but im assuming by physical, u mean sex...not physical abuse?
n0iZe
October 24th '08, 10:52 AM
why doesnt she just tell him how she feels? if he really is perfect, he'll understand

but im assuming by physical, u mean sex...not physical abuse?

Naivete. If a guy beats her if even once, tell her to lose the guy.

Obviously he isn't perfect.
jcbangl
October 24th '08, 09:43 PM
a guy should never lay a hand on a woman and a woman shouldn't either.

i think she should talk to him and if he don't understand then and she is just that scared tell him to take a hike...
bella-bambina
October 24th '08, 11:39 PM
obviously we all know now hes not perfect.
and i meant physical in like hitting, not sexually.
yea im going to have a talk with her, and if she doesn't talk to him then i will.
colored_zebra
October 25th '08, 06:16 AM
sorry, i thought u meant sexually
no one deserves to be beaten, he has some serious sucking up to do
VraiCanon
October 25th '08, 12:03 PM
He obviously isn't the perfect guy if he's smacked her. Get rid.
If she doesn't get rid of him now, the rose tinted glasses will take over and she'll keep giving him "just another chance because he'll change" etc etc and will make excuses for him hitting her.
Leon
October 27th '08, 01:06 AM
Agreed completely with Adele above.
n0iZe
October 27th '08, 01:28 AM
sorry, i thought u meant sexually
no one deserves to be beaten, he has some serious sucking up to do


He'd be sucking up his own blood from the floor, trying to prevent himself from bleeding out too soon, after I got through with any sack of unworthy shit like him.
luvsickhalfcrzy
November 2nd '08, 07:13 PM
ok i know he seems like a bad guy and i agree with everyone in here that abuse is not cool at all. thats the reason i lost my ex that im still in love with. one time is too many but she really needs to talk to him about it, if he cares about her he will realize that he'll lose her if he doesnt stop.