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luvsickhalfcrzy
November 2nd '08, 06:59 PM
Here's the thing... my ex that im still in love with has cheated on her last two boyfriends with me, and each time it means something to me, like it makes me think that she still cares about me and we're going to get back together. So... how do i know when it's "just sex" because i always tell her how i feel about it but i never get a reply from her

VraiCanon
November 3rd '08, 02:54 PM
why the fuck are you still having sex with her? shes humouring you. ITS JUST SEX. if it wasnt JUST sex, she'd split up with the guys and get back with you.
youre just gonna get hurt if you carry on

piax
November 3rd '08, 02:55 PM
Yeah, what she said ^^ lol.

luvsickhalfcrzy
November 3rd '08, 02:59 PM
why the fuck are you still having sex with her? shes humouring you. ITS JUST SEX. if it wasnt JUST sex, she'd split up with the guys and get back with you.
youre just gonna get hurt if you carry on

well i have so many feelings for her and i still care about her and think that when we have sex it means something between us. to be honest i often feel like it isnt going to matter to her but i just want her back so much. i know that its dumb but i just dont know how to forget about her.

n0iZe
November 3rd '08, 04:53 PM
well i have so many feelings for her and i still care about her and think that when we have sex it means something between us. to be honest i often feel like it isnt going to matter to her but i just want her back so much. i know that its dumb but i just dont know how to forget about her.

Blah blah blah blah.

That's all I read.

You're going to get nothing, you're going to have nothing. End of story.

If you can't realize that SEX IS NOT LOVE, then you will understand that SHE DOES NOT LOVE YOU. If she cheats, then she DOES NOT LOVE YOU.

One more time for a bit of emphasis; SHE DOES NOT LOVE YOU.

Tami
November 3rd '08, 05:28 PM
She is just not getting enough form her boyfriends :)

luvsickhalfcrzy
November 3rd '08, 06:09 PM
thanks you guys i think that i just need the blunt truth because im pretty sure she doesnt care about me but i just fight it because i dont want it to be true

EbichaSugizai
November 8th '08, 03:16 PM
She is just not getting enough form her boyfriends :)

...boyfriendS

Enough said.
I've had it with girls who like to paly about like that. I've had my fair share of the experience - it just gets worse.

I can't even get a girl properly now because of how I get because of having my heart torn to shreds by some b1tch.

I have a deep problem with trusting girls nowadays, you don't wanna end up like me mate. Just let go.

n0iZe
November 8th '08, 06:05 PM
...boyfriendS

Enough said.
I've had it with girls who like to paly about like that. I've had my fair share of the experience - it just gets worse.

I can't even get a girl properly now because of how I get because of having my heart torn to shreds by some b1tch.

I have a deep problem with trusting girls nowadays, you don't wanna end up like me mate. Just let go.

AHA.

Male.

EbichaSugizai
November 8th '08, 08:02 PM
AHA.

Male.

Heh.. ;)
Should of looked at my profile! :P

-Michael-
November 16th '08, 11:31 AM
Hahaa I read the same thing and i'm like ITS A GUY!

I wanted you to be a girl :(


LAWL

phiephie
November 16th '08, 05:03 PM
I know she probably seems to be all that matters to you right now, but that will fade with time. This girl obviously doesn't care who she hurts, you're worth more than that. Stand up for yourself and refuse to give her what she wants until she is honest with you.
Hope that helps :)

Leon
November 16th '08, 07:31 PM
I agree with everyone else.

Here's a question I want you to answer:

Do you really want to be with someone who you broke up with, is quite willing to cheat, more than once, claim to love you while they're seeing someone else and to be quite honest is just using you for sex because she knows you still love her as you keep telling her?

She doesn't reply to you because she doesn't want you to know what she thinks one way or the other, and that way she can still have sex with you as you don't know how she really feels.

Please reply, I'd love to know what you think. :)

ficti0n
November 16th '08, 11:15 PM
Don't cock up the free sex. Throw your feelings in the bin keep a shaggin' and learn some moves for the next girl who is worth your time!

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November 17th '08, 10:06 AM
dude this all depends on how deep your feelings are if you think you can keep a
sexual relation ship without being tied down by emotional bagguage
if you can then good on you mate but if not sleeping with her is just going to make it so you think about her alot...mainly when your trying to move on
very recently been here myself and it isnt fun for somebody to play with your emotions
but iv been on the opposite side too and i know its very easy to justify a lovers actions or at least try to to make yourself feel better, feel involved or make it feel like your getting over it but you shouldnt put yourself down like that and you should strive to get yourself a better gal and move on

luvsickhalfcrzy
December 26th '08, 06:29 PM
hey thanks to everyone who replied! well since this whole thing i've kinda met someone else who treats me way better, but there is kinda a problem. im going to make a new thread about it. Again, thanks to everyone for the advice and help

Nammy
December 26th '08, 07:10 PM
Why would you have feelings for such a terrible person that has no problem cheating on her boyfriends?
You should probably go get yourself tested for STDs.

luvsickhalfcrzy
December 26th '08, 07:21 PM
yeah i dont care about her anymore, now shes just someone i have sex with when im up here but i think i should go get tested too, not because i think i caught something but because i need too. i think everyone should get tested every so often