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Littleoldme
November 15th '08, 06:06 AM
Ugh I hate returning here but sadly this is really the only place I can think of going. I'm depressed, I want to commit suicide every day because of how my life has turned out. I realize that thinking of suicide is just a form of stress release and doesn't mean that I will actually do it but It's getting to the point where I'm worried. If one big thing happens to me I don't know what I would do.

I tried talking to a counciller, my form teacher, my best friend and it just doesn't help. Where can I go from here I really don't know : (.

Carlton
November 15th '08, 06:30 AM
Ugh I hate returning here but sadly this is really the only place I can think of going. I'm depressed, I want to commit suicide every day because of how my life has turned out. I realize that thinking of suicide is just a form of stress release and doesn't mean that I will actually do it but It's getting to the point where I'm worried. If one big thing happens to me I don't know what I would do.

I tried talking to a counciller, my form teacher, my best friend and it just doesn't help. Where can I go from here I really don't know : (.


The best advice I think anyone can give you is to look within yourself. No one else can truly understand you better then yourself. Everyone has there own unique feelings towards there events in there live. I know when I feel deeply depressed I reflect on my life, and tell myself that time waits for no one. The best thing to do when your depressed is think of the positives and also to think how to go around your depression by doing good in the world and making others happy. Believe me its a rewarding feeling to bring someone else happiness in exchange for you're own. Knowing that you make a difference in the world makes everyone feel glad to be alive.

Littleoldme
November 15th '08, 06:35 AM
The best advice I think anyone can give you is to look within yourself. No one else can truly understand you better then yourself. Everyone has there own unique feelings towards there events in there live. I know when I feel deeply depressed I reflect on my life, and tell myself that time waits for no one. The best thing to do when your depressed is think of the positives and also to think how to go around your depression by doing good in the world and making others happy. Believe me its a rewarding feeling to bring someone else happiness in exchange for you're own. Knowing that you make a difference in the world makes everyone feel glad to be alive.

I have done so much for everyone around me and the only thing It has taught me is that no one would ever return the favor for me. You might say I picked the wrong friends or something but even if thats true I'm not exactly going to be able to find anymore good mates at this point. Thanks anyway though.

Carlton
November 15th '08, 06:40 AM
I have done so much for everyone around me and the only thing It has taught me is that no one would ever return the favor for me. You might say I picked the wrong friends or something but even if thats true I'm not exactly going to be able to find anymore good mates at this point. Thanks anyway though.


I'll be your friend bro :P what is really the problem? What is the root of your feelings?

fuzzylumpkins
November 15th '08, 10:50 AM
Figuring out why you feel this way is pretty much the only fool-proof way to get over it. Although I can't recommend exercise enough as a way to help deal with these feelings. It gives you an outlet to vent your emotions, it releases endorphins into your system that make you feel great, and you end up with more confidence and in great shape!

Also, simply because this is suicide we're talking about here, it might be worth giving a counselor another shot. It might take a few tries to find one that you can connect with, but these are serious emotions. We'll do all we can to help you here on TF, but the truth is we're just not equipped to deal properly with these feelings.

n0iZe
November 15th '08, 12:28 PM
I have done so much for everyone around me and the only thing It has taught me is that no one would ever return the favor for me. You might say I picked the wrong friends or something but even if thats true I'm not exactly going to be able to find anymore good mates at this point. Thanks anyway though.

I don't believe you.

You might be kind and considerate, but how much have you REALLY done?

Littleoldme
November 16th '08, 09:52 AM
I don't believe you.

You might be kind and considerate, but how much have you REALLY done?

You have no idea what I have done for people, the incredible strain I have put on myself just to make someone else feel that tiny bit better. Guess asking people anonymously isn't the anwser either.

Carlton
November 16th '08, 10:25 AM
:P keep ur head up Bud!