Would this be considered cheating?

[blOndie45]

Ok well right now, i'm together with this kid (as in together, i mean we aren't dating but want to eventually). We've been together since september. But the other night, i hooked up with one of my best guy friends from my job. Would you consider this cheating or no? If so, Why?Thank you :)

[ficti0n]

Nah.

[VraiCanon]

No because you aren't exclusive

[fuzzylumpkins]

I'd say no, but its hard to tell from your post.

If he did the same thing, would you be upset?

[tf_arl_90]

My feeling is that if you have to ask yourself if you're cheating, you probably are, and you just want to try to find a loophole to make yourself feel less guilty.

That being said, I have no idea what "together but not dating" means. If you could clarify, then maybe my answer would be different.

[Leon]

If you're not agreed that you're 'officially' seeing each other then nope.

[Tim]

nah your not going out with each other, just dont be surprised if he gets a bit annoyed by it

[Leon]

Yeah I can see how this could affect your current situation.

[iaxa]

nope. i can't imagine that he will be thrilled if he found out. my advice is don't let it happen again because these things have a way of biting you in the arse

[Shane]

It's not cheating but you have no chance with him now.

[SierraStabler]

Nope. You're not together so don't worry about it.
Just don't get mad if he hooks up with someone else as well.

[ThePickUpArtist]

nope. cheating is only possible in exclusive relationships. you can't cheat if it never started.

[n0iZe]

Personally, I'd be more than pissed off at you, and it's a pretty douchy move to pull.

[Scribble]

No, you're not committed to anyone. However if I was in the guy's position I guess I'd be a little disheartened.

[luvsickhalfcrzy]

nope, but if i were him i wouldnt have expected it. also umm just wondering why youre not dating if youre together? and been together for a few months now, so just wondering what you mean by eventually want to be together.

[-Michael-]

Maybe sending mixed messages?

Like, telling someone you like them and then doing it with someone else, first person will feel that you dont want them anymore?