What Should I Do To Overcome This?

[Tommy Vercetti]

Well, there's this girl. I've liked her and been talking to her since about November. Her name's Holly, she has long natural black hair, brown eyes, kind of short, she's one of the nices people I've ever met. The only class I have with her is PE. I think she knows I like her, and sometimes I think I see her looking at me, weather it's on the bus next to me before leaving school, in PE, or across the lunchroom. The first problem is, there's this guy. He flirts with many girls throughout the day and just happens to do so with Holly and her friend in PE, too. This guy just bugs me, it just seems like all he's out for action. I feel like kicking the shit out of him because he just bothers me. The second problem is that I'm really nervous about going up and talking to any girl in person, weather I like them or not. I can never think of what to say, I always worry what they think of me, what their friends around think, etc., and I just don't know how to overcome it. All I want to do right now is get to know her better, but I can't really think of what I should say when I go talk to her. I mean, we email each other, sometimes talk on the phone, but in person, we haven't talked near as much. I don't know, maybe I overthink this, but I really can't think of how to just go up and talk to her. What do you think I should do?

[_bosnian_]

hm i don't know. you have nothing to lose, so just say her what you think about this girl.
and if you can talk on the phone with her, you can talk in person, too. ;)
if you don't have the heart to do it alone, just wait until she's with a friend and you're with a friend. then you can talk in group. so it's perhaps easier for you

[Hevz]

Well.... all i can say is tht this lad tht is really bugging u.... dn't let him. there is a lad like him in every year i'll guarantee it and yeh girls like attention frm lads like im which is probably like this girl u like bt in all honesty nt many girls wud actually wanna b with a lad like tht! i mean cum on u sed he's the biggest flirt so y wud ne girl trust im enough 2 b faithful he's probs the most likely person EVER to cheat! and as far as it goes with talkin 2 this girl in person i wud say all u gotta do is stay relaxed and go wid the flow dn't force convo! lol n maybe if ur findin it hard to do tht then u cud ring her more often tht way she'll get the message tht u like er plus u will get used 2 talkin 2 her so tht when u do talk in person it wn't b as wierd.
rite well tht's my little essay for 2day! ope it is sum use! over and out hevzxxxx;)