Stay or go?

[Teen&luvinit]

Well this is my first post. My problem is that I have this Boyfriend, and we have been together for 5 months. And now that the year is winding down he is putting an extrem amount of pressure on me to have sex with him. But, i am a virgin and i don't htink i am ready. But he seems to think i am. I am at my breaking point and I don't want to do something i will regret for the rest of my life. But i don't want him to break up with me after 5 months over something as overrated as sex. And he never had brought it up until these last few weeks. should i Stay with him or should I go?

HELP ME

[Bob!]

Just tell him that you don't want to yet and thats final, and not to keep tryin to push u into it.

If he carries on get rid of him, if he actually loved you he'd respect your descision not to.

[Sponge'K'nob]

agreed with bob there.
he can't force you into doing anything you don't want to, if he does then hes not worth it.
do you mind me asking how old he is?

[Mamfy]

Yeah I was wondering that Kaye. The chances are, his mates are claiming that they're doing it, therefore he wants to know what all the fuss is about..

You need to tell him you're not ready for it and don't want to ruin the relationship by doing it. You should tell him that by waiting those extra years to have sex with each other, it would make it that more special when you do do it. Don;t go doing something you don't want to just to make him happy.

In the long run, anyone like that is purely not worth the hassle.

[rondo]

dont do anything you dont want to, and more importantly, dont let him make you do stuff u dont want to do

[PrincessAlice]

Just tell him that you don't want to yet and thats final, and not to keep tryin to push u into it.

If he carries on get rid of him, if he actually loved you he'd respect your descision not to.
i totally agree with bob

don't let anybody ever make you do anything you don't feel ready to do its your life don't let anybody else live it for you

[Guest]

how can he know if your ready or not? thats rediculous, only you can possibly know. i've recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend who i love very much. i had never really done anything other than kiss a boy before, so was really worried that i'd be REALLY nervous. but i knew it was right and that i wanted to. if you have ANY doubts, DONT DO IT! you cant take it back once its happened. you should deffinately wait until you feel ready!

[Sweetcorn101]

I think you need to have a very, long and serious talk with him on this subject and figure out why now is he trying to force you into this. And if you don't get a good answer then dump him. Because from personal expirence if he doesn't have a good answer then he was most likly just interested in that from the begining*sp* or his friends are pressuring(daring) him to do it!

[The Reaper]

Whoa wait, holy shit you're 14?! Good god, don't have sex with him. Stick by my motto (which I stole, but nevermind): When cherries are red, they're ready for plucking. When girls are sixteen they're ready for f******.

[Mamfy]

That's not true though Reaper. Just because someone is 16, doesn't mean that they should hurry up and get out there for a fuck as you so politely put it. Plenty of people wait til they are 18 even to have sex. Just because you get to the age where it is legal to have sex, doesn't mean you are ready or want to have it.

QUite frankly, that motto is teh shit.

[The Reaper]

Yes that motto is the shit. Thank you very much.

[Mamfy]

Why, that's no problem my dear Reaper ;)

[The Reaper]

Of course it isn't, that's what you're here for, complimenting me.

[Mamfy]

Complimenting YOU? Why you?

[The Reaper]

Because I'm amazing.