I have a problem

[GlossyiceIris]

can you help me?

[Bob!]

We could if you told the problem in the first place.......

[GlossyiceIris]

oh ok! lol... um my mum h8s me.. she let my sis do whateva she wants, anythin she needs and im like their slave. all i do is clean the house ba maself, gadening, washing the dishes, do all the work... pls help me... can i runaway?

[Boy_Wonder06]

no you cant run away that wont solve anythink at all trust me, erm, have you ever talk to your mum about the way she treats you and how you feel deprived of certain things which your sister gets, is your sister older or younger?

Erm, pm me with some more details and i will be happy to help okay :) ....
i would like to know: your relationship with your sister, (do u get on etc), is she older or younger, how long you have felt like this, any incidents which may be useful to know about. thanks :D

[GlossyiceIris]

olda. she's 20

[Asi9ine]

Shes still the adult of the family, and will be until she lives her own life, 'flies the nest' so to speak. Then you will get to take her place, and your mother will begin to see you as an adult.

Don't forget that you aren't even a teenager yet. You are still very much a child by regular convention.

Just show that you deserve to be treated like an adult, and I am sure she will return the favour by giving you the freedom you deserve.

[GlossyiceIris]

well they said 'i have to do all the work coz im the youngest' but its not fai... :( geez!! if i could only runaway.... thanks anyway guys....

[Sponge'K'nob]

maybe shes allowd to do what she wants, BECAUSE SHES 20 NAD YOUR MOTHER CAN'T STOP HER *breathes*
your only 11...you can't do a lot of things, running away would be stupid and attention seeking at your age. trust me

[Xpose]

Eehm .. what is your problem about?

[GlossyiceIris]

oh man.... thanks...

[Asi9ine]

Could you ease up on the posting? I don't know what it achieves, but you have made many posts like the one above me which say, "oh man... thanks..."

Could you please try to add some constructive content into your post and think if what you are about to post will affect the thread in any way?

That's all I ask. I am sure a couple of others have noticed.

And no, running away would be a very foolish thing to do.

[Notebook]

There is a huge age gap between you and your sister. I'll bet that your mum made your sister do chores when she was your age. You woulda been too young to remember tho.

[blazeteendanny]

i always get the feeling my mom hates me and that she thinks i was an accident, but i just ignore her. i know its hard to, and belive me my moms loud so i kno how hard it is, so just go to a friends house to let off steam (if its ok with ur friends) or tell your mom u've had enough and ur sick of how ur treated.

[GlossyiceIris]

guys<< thanks very much fo the adv. i think that my sista get what she always wanted coz she's my motha and step dadsfavourite.... and also she's an adult already.

[Mamfy]

You can't think she is thr favourite. I'm sure they both love you equally, buyt you are going through thr growing phase that your sister has passed through already.

Maybe your parents find it easier to talk to your sister because she is more intellectual and is on virtually the same level as them.

Just be patient. Your time will come. There's no use running away, it's only going to make it worse because you are running away fromt he situation, rahter than sticking at it and trying to sort it out. Just wait.

[GlossyiceIris]

that waz it. thanks every1 *Thread Closed*

[iaxa]

just so ya no i have the same thing with my dad . im his lil beer fetcher even though i can beat the crap through him ... he is so fat anyways back on subject . ijust get a plastic frog and chase him around the house with it. he hates frogs so just use there fear against them or just stand up for your self (but not how i do it or else u might get in more trouble!)

[totz]

i think you shouldnt run away....thats ...just dont.....only you live in your house with them and so only you cna really say what it is like but you veiw is very likely to be byast ....maybe they do have a fave but maybwe theyll soon realise you hate doing gardening and that...giv it time......it does take alot to bring up childreen ...maybe you just dont know how lucky you are???!!!!