Older Woman...

[luvsickhalfcrzy]

hey so after this long thing with my ex, i'd been feeling like shit. My sister offered to hook me up with her 35 yr old friend. i had met her once before, and thought she was really hot, but this time was kinda just a "hook up". I talked to her on the phone and she seemed kinda bitchy so i figured id have no problem just having sex with her and not caring at all. When i got there she was really nice and sweet and a completely different person than on the phone. we talked about her and her family a little bit but she mainly just wanted sex. i was really nervous because i had been talking so much shit to my sister about how hot she was and the things i wanted to do to her. well after talking to her and what not she seems pretty cool. im supposed to go hang out with her again when i get back to arkansas, i really want to get to know her more but im kinda wondering if a 20 yr old with a 35 yr old would really work. that and i dont know if she is interested in me but i would like to find out. she's been married twice and has three kids. anyone ever been with an older woman that could give me some advice?

[lozflup]

Well i have to say i feel sorry for you, you have some serious woman problems hahaha
errmmm well are you wanting a proper relationship with her?
cus to be honest it sounds like she just wants to have some fun really, cus shes been tied down with 3 kids and she has had to husbands.
i guess if your wanting just sex suree get with her, but if you want a relationship i think you should try and find someone who wants the same as you.

but then again i could be all wrong about her :) good luck! x

[luvsickhalfcrzy]

thanks, yeah im hoping that the next time i hang out with her ill get a hint or something as to what she wants

[Leon]

Why, as a 20 year old, did you agree to hook up with a 35 year old who's been married twice and has 3 kids? Then think after 'oh no wait, is this right?'

You're telling me you never thought of that before anything happened? Or were you just that obsessed with trying to get some sex.

[nyx]

Haha, Leon you have such a way with words. I have to agree though.

It was a bad idea from the start, and even if she does want a relationship, do you really want one with a 35 yo with kids and ex husbands? Thats not gonna be a stroll in the park. Your young just go out and have some fun.

[luvsickhalfcrzy]

um she was just really hot and i guess i just didnt really think about it. the kids dont bother me at all i love kids.

[Wacko1574]

Hmm how cool of your sister. So you just want to have sex? or are you looking at it as a possible relationship?

[nyx]

There's a difference between loving kids and dating someone who has kids. Hell I'm training to be a teacher in September but if I was on a date and the guy told me he had kids I'd be out of there before dessert.

But each to their own, if you want to date someone who is always gonna put their kids first, will in all likelihood have ex husbands turning up on the scene from time to time, with all the tension that will cause then go for it.

Wouldn't be the way I'd want to spend my time.

[Leon]

Hmm how cool of your sister.I know, really nice of her wasn't it. =/


um she was just really hot and i guess i just didnt really think about it. the kids dont bother me at all i love kids. Just as I thought sadly.
Just because you like kids doesn't mean a thing, have you ever had to look after one, for more than a couple of hours. You need to think about things like that incase this looks like it might turn serious.


There's a difference between loving kids and dating someone who has kids. Hell I'm training to be a teacher in September but if I was on a date and the guy told me he had kids I'd be out of there before dessert.

But each to their own, if you want to date someone who is always gonna put their kids first, will in all likelihood have ex husbands turning up on the scene from time to time, with all the tension that will cause then go for it.

Wouldn't be the way I'd want to spend my time.Exactly, fully agreed.

[luvsickhalfcrzy]

i pretty much raised my neice and nephew, their dads were deadbeats so i know all about takin care of kids and what its like. i would like a relationship possibly, but like i said i really want to get to know her more first.