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n0iZe
January 22nd '09, 11:20 AM
Grandpa died yesterday. (1/21)

Though, I don't feel sad about it. Strange--I know, but there isn't anything I can do about death other than to move on? Why feel sorry about it?

lozflup
January 22nd '09, 11:39 AM
Awww im sorry to hear about that :(
Yeah i know how you feel, when my nana died like 3 years ago now i can remember being told and i just went ok and everyone was crying, it just didnt feel like she had actually gone.
And even at her funeral i didnt cry or anything i just felt sort of empty but not sad.
But then eventually after i realised she had died like a week after the funeral i was upset.
I wasnt really upset cus she had died, everyone has their time to go and that was hers, i was more upset how i didnt get to say bye.

So maybe you havent felt like your grandad has gone yet, its weird but im sure you'll realise it soon, i did after like 2 weeks but im quite cold as stone haha x

Leon
January 22nd '09, 12:11 PM
Grandpa died yesterday. (1/21)

Though, I don't feel sad about it. Strange--I know, but there isn't anything I can do about death other than to move on? Why feel sorry about it?Sorry to hear that :(


Awww im sorry to hear about that :(
Yeah i know how you feel, when my nana died like 3 years ago now i can remember being told and i just went ok and everyone was crying, it just didnt feel like she had actually gone.
And even at her funeral i didnt cry or anything i just felt sort of empty but not sad.
But then eventually after i realised she had died like a week after the funeral i was upset.
I wasnt really upset cus she had died, everyone has their time to go and that was hers, i was more upset how i didnt get to say bye.I was exactly the same a couple of years ago when my grandad died.

Wacko1574
January 22nd '09, 12:40 PM
Sorry to hear that...may he RIP

i was close to my grandma ...when she died...i didn't cry either...but a year later...and especially in family gathering ...i begin miss her and start crying ...i don't know..maybe i am extra sensitive ....that's all you can do ...move on..and hold on to the good memories

n0iZe
January 23rd '09, 12:22 AM
Indeedy.

GemmaJamPot
January 23rd '09, 12:36 AM
Sorry to hear that Mike. Condolences to your family.

RIP.

X

Shane
January 26th '09, 07:50 PM
Condolences Mike.

Hope you'll be alright mate. The loss tends to hit you a little later than you'd expect.