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nyx
February 3rd '09, 10:17 PM
Self explanatory.

When was it? Are you still together? If not why did you break up? Would you consider getting back together at any point?




Min was 2 years, from early year 12 until a couple of months into uni, so when I was 16-18 ish.

We broke up cos I'd moved away to uni and we couldn't cope with the distance, or at least that was the reason we gave, in reality we'd been drifting for a while, and I'd grown out of him.

Nah we'd never get back together now, we've gone two completely seperate directions in life and have very little in common nowadays.

Buttons93
February 3rd '09, 10:21 PM
Mine's the relationship I'm currently in, just over 6 months.. We've been going through a rough patch recently and split up 3 times in a month but we're getting things back on track now I think :)

lozflup
February 3rd '09, 10:32 PM
The longest relationship ive been in is the one im in now, been going out for excluding our break up for 2 years and 3 months i think, been back together for 5 months now and everything is much better than before i think.
Been with jon since i was 14 and i had just turned 14! haha

zakarius
February 3rd '09, 10:46 PM
longest was 9 months when i was like in secondary school yr11 or summat then had a 6 month one, but the one im in now is the one im most happy with and i can see us lasting a hell of a long time bin 6 months on the 13th of feb ^_^

VraiCanon
February 3rd '09, 11:11 PM
My longest was 9 months when I was 17. We split up just before I turned 18... I would never get back with him now, we split up for a reason!
I've had a few flings but would say I've been single (with the exception of 2 weeks, erghhh) since that relationship. Jeez, almost a year!

fuzzylumpkins
February 3rd '09, 11:58 PM
4 months. It ended because as it turns out, she was a slut lol, so no chance of it working again.

Not like 4 months was much of a relationship anyways XD I never got good at that whole long term relationship thing. Eventually I'll mature and one will work, but not yet lol.

GemmaJamPot
February 4th '09, 01:32 AM
A year and 4 months. Broke up coz it wasnt really a relationship to begin with tbh. It shouldnt have lasted as long as it did n a lot of convincing I did to other ppl, was mostly 2 my naive self. Ive grown up since then, and now really wonder what the hell I was thinking. I dont think I regret it, coz it was a learning experience, but I would never go back there. Or do anything like that again.
Im much happier now, and I feel a more confident person than I was.

X

Tim
February 4th '09, 10:39 AM
12 months an some of ya know the rest

WastedlittleDj
February 4th '09, 12:26 PM
Nearly 2 and a half years ... looooong time

ficti0n
February 4th '09, 12:30 PM
Nearly 2 and a half years ... looooong time

Same.

Charlotte(:
February 4th '09, 04:21 PM
My current one. A year on the 12th :)
<3

-Michael-
February 4th '09, 08:19 PM
12 inches...


Nah lol 1 yeah 4 months 3 weeks 2 days lol

Leon
February 4th '09, 11:08 PM
Nearly 2 and a half years ... looooong timeSame.

If people didn't know any better, I'd think they'd be putting 2 and 2 together.



...and getting 22.

jademcgregorxx
June 14th '09, 03:42 AM
mine's a year :D still in it (yn) xxx

x-stones-x
June 14th '09, 06:00 PM
A year and a half, from the age of 15-16. We ended it and I've been in my current relationship for almost 3 months

zakarius
June 14th '09, 07:30 PM
ten months as of yesterday (:

Buttons93
June 14th '09, 09:52 PM
My current, which is 10 months, 3 weeks and a day :)

VraiCanon
June 15th '09, 06:06 AM
Ergh I want that soppy butterflies feeling at the beginning of a fresh relationship. Not a long relationship, just that feeling! :( I miss that!

lozflup
June 15th '09, 06:12 AM
Ergh I want that soppy butterflies feeling at the beginning of a fresh relationship. Not a long relationship, just that feeling! :( I miss that!
I miss it too :(

x-stones-x
June 15th '09, 05:18 PM
I still haven't got over that stage, not sure when it'll happen, I got over that stage at 1-2 months with my ex, it's been 3 months with this one and we haven't got past it yet :S

kayla_xx
June 16th '09, 04:29 AM
mine was 9 months..nt together anymore..distance became too much and no i wuldnt try again

getdrunk
June 16th '09, 02:01 PM
Longest relationship i was in was literally 2 1/2 days.

zakarius
June 17th '09, 12:20 AM
i can believe that

getdrunk
June 17th '09, 03:21 AM
i can believe that

It had nothing to do with how i act cause they like how i am. I just make chicks dump or not like me right away on purpis.

Gem.
June 18th '09, 10:33 PM
I bet it's because you irratated the hell out of them.
And it's purpose not purpis.

I don't really like been in long relationships. Not at my age anyways.
I feel I'm too young to get anywhere near serious.
Also I get bored quickly!

Tommeh!!!
June 18th '09, 11:08 PM
3 years including the 'dating period'. Not together now as she met some rich guy who made loads of promises about spoiling her rotten (funnily enough he turned out to be a massive wanker :P) and yeah despite talking to her still....like fuck would i get back with her.

Tim
June 20th '09, 03:29 AM
indeed

Jessaay!
June 20th '09, 05:05 AM
11 months ish. We broke up because it just wasn't working, at least for me, there was no feeling left anymore and we rarely got to see each other. It was a Long distance thing, and we'd not seen eachother in months, he would complain when I was emotionless but I just needed the physical side of the relationship, as in in person not sex, so it didn't work. I wouldn't get back together, he's my friend still, sort of, but I wouldn't get back together with him, we also just weren't compatible in personality.
I'd still consider long distance relationships, but only in different circumstances. If I saw them more, maybe, if it was something like a relationship trying to fit round university, I'd consider it. But with more caution.

ficti0n
June 20th '09, 05:06 AM
Years.

Thok
June 20th '09, 07:10 AM
20mins?

Charlotte(:
June 21st '09, 09:15 AM
16 months.. Sort of. We've broken up quite a few times, but always ended up getting back together.

colored_zebra
June 21st '09, 11:43 AM
a year so far...

getdrunk
June 21st '09, 04:44 PM
I bet it's because you irratated the hell out of them.
And it's purpose not purpis.

I don't really like been in long relationships. Not at my age anyways.
I feel I'm too young to get anywhere near serious.
Also I get bored quickly!

no. Like just last night partyin on the lake and at a bar my friend was trying hard and they where more intersted in me which i wasn't talkin much to em. There was this one chick that was really intersted in me cuz she kept looking my way 24/7but i left to soon.

lozflup
June 21st '09, 04:49 PM
It would have been 3 years the other day if we hadnt broken up and broken up last year.
Kerazzzzy!

Tommeh!!!
June 21st '09, 07:15 PM
no. Like just last night partyin on the lake and at a bar my friend was trying hard and they where more intersted in me which i wasn't talkin much to em. There was this one chick that was really intersted in me cuz she kept looking my way 24/7but i left to soon.

24/7 eh? so uh, how long were you there exactly?

Andrewr639
June 21st '09, 08:37 PM
1 year, 8 months :(

From year 10 until around the end of year 11

she dumped me

I would, but yakno how things go :). Lifes a bitch sometimes

getdrunk
June 22nd '09, 05:17 AM
24/7 eh? so uh, how long were you there exactly?

I was wasted I dont remember. I already no what your getting at. Every time i would look that way she would be looking at me.

Tommeh!!!
June 22nd '09, 09:28 PM
I was wasted I dont remember. I already no what your getting at. Every time i would look that way she would be looking at me.

Fail.

Gem.
June 22nd '09, 09:48 PM
no. Like just last night partyin on the lake and at a bar my friend was trying hard and they where more intersted in me which i wasn't talkin much to em. There was this one chick that was really intersted in me cuz she kept looking my way 24/7but i left to soon.

I bet you had bird crap on you or something.
She was probably laughing at you.

getdrunk
June 23rd '09, 12:24 AM
I bet you had bird crap on you or something.
She was probably laughing at you.

no i guess my friend said she came by us that night. I kind of think I remember. But she was working or somthin.

LoveIsARiot_x
June 23rd '09, 07:51 PM
A Year And 3 Months... Im 14 :/
Broke Up Because He Was An Asshole And Fell In Love With One Of My Best Friends

-Michael-
July 2nd '09, 10:49 AM
12 inches...


Nah lol 1 yeah 4 months 3 weeks 2 days lol


Must of been drunk when I said this! :S Wtf lol

Miffy
July 7th '09, 08:01 AM
nearly two years

i walked in on her sleeping with her best friend (Y)

Tim
July 7th '09, 11:08 AM
ouch ^

Haylee Dawn
September 15th '09, 12:24 AM
My longest has been two and half years. I am still with him, and plan on it staying that way.

aglarana
September 15th '09, 01:46 PM
2 and half years and i am still in it :) i like that, i mean sometimes i miss the butterflyes and everythign from a beginign of a relationship but on the other hand i like to know i have him in my lfie allways and that he loves me just how i am and i am difficult

WastedlittleDj
September 15th '09, 04:26 PM
My longest relationship feels like a decade ... it's not but feels that way lol dunno if Leon would agree but meh xD

nyx
September 15th '09, 04:29 PM
You make that sound like a bad thing :P

WastedlittleDj
September 15th '09, 04:31 PM
No tis a good thing hehe xD

Ajax
September 15th '09, 06:37 PM
A year and a bit. ;l I dumped her. Realised she was actually incredibly childish, moreso than I am. ^^; And she was older.. Cut off all relations with her, haven't talked since the split. Would NEVER get back together, even if she begged.

Leon
September 18th '09, 02:37 AM
My longest relationship feels like a decade ... it's not but feels that way lol dunno if Leon would agree but meh xDHe would agree it's been a very long time yes, just coming up to 3 years, wait 'til it does reach a decade!


You make that sound like a bad thing :PI was gonna say that! :P


No tis a good thing hehe xDGood :)


A year and a bit. ;l I dumped her. Realised she was actually incredibly childish, moreso than I am. ^^; And she was older.. Cut off all relations with her, haven't talked since the split. Would NEVER get back together, even if she begged.She must have done something, you don't just realise someone is childish after a year and then some.

zakarius
September 18th '09, 01:33 PM
a year

VraiCanon
September 18th '09, 06:06 PM
Sigh, still single after over a year and a half. Not necessarily a bad thing, I'm seemingly too fickle for a relationship!

DanceDance!
September 19th '09, 01:06 AM
about a year, 11 months or something.

likeproper
September 26th '09, 11:54 AM
Just over 10 months.
Found out after that he was dating other girls the whole way through our relationship.