No matter how hard I try, I can't get a gf

[Conal]

I have tried getting a nice gf by looking for one, waiting for one, going for girls way out of my league... and i can't get one. It boring! Being single for too long is proper boring. What can i do? Shall i just wait or try harder to find one or what i don't know...

Someone give us a hand please!!!:sadangel:

[NATAL!E]

I have no idea. I gave up on boys because it was going nowhere. If guys like me, it's either because they're mega flirts who say the same to every girl, or they're about 30. I just can't win, lol.

It sucks being single, when you're in that mood where you just wish you had someone. :/ But, there's not much you can do, i think.. :[

[~Wayne~]

Only one thing that waits in this situation...wait and I'm sure someone will come along

[Mamfy]

Yeah. If you've tried lots then there's not really much you can do, other than wait.

Arre you sure you've been looking in the right places? And are you sure you're doing the right thing to impress them?

Sorry. Just wanted you to weigh up the situation.

[Sponge'K'nob]

maybe you're waiting too hard? don't look for someone, then you might find them, if you get me.

[Mamfy]

I agree with Kaye.

You get what you want when you stop looking for something.

Try it. See what happens :)

[Charley]

Just look and dont take the risk in thinking that the girl will make the first move coz that dont happen all the time if you see a girl that you like go for it the worse that she could do is say no xx

[goldengirl]

tryin 2 think wots gon wrong?do girls think ur gay or sumin?lol.soz only jokin:-)dont really no whether 2 suggest giving up-might turn out even more boring!lol.
is it coz ur 2 shy?maybe u should try flirting a bit more?being a 'flirty' girl :-) i hate nothing more than when i know a guy whos into me but is so timid to even look me in the eye.r u good mates with any girls?if not it may be worth while coz 1. you'll get 2 meet lots more n 2. you'll get introduced 2 more still!
a few tips-try be your self, after all if you want a relationship with whoever u might 'pull' this is probably best:-)
be flirty-try not to be sleazy though, u dont want girls just to think you r just like that with every1 as it wont make them feel special; girls love flattery!
be confident-get good freinds with a few girls-can come in handy whenyour at partys (newyears etc)/nights out you can ask 1 of them 2 anomuniosly (+ inocently) ask another what they think of u as well as inform u when some1 has ther eye on u1-youd be suprised the amount girls talk 2 each other about who they fancy.
i defo agree 2 make the first move.its a good feeling knowing that some 1 likes u!as i said earlier girls love flattery.got 2 admit that i have previously took intrest in a few people just coz i knew they liked me, i know sad but true lol.hope this helpsx

[*Jess*]

This is like my situation, only with girlfriends and I'm not a lesbian. heh.
I look so hard and there seem to be no decent guys there.
It's probably because I'm not pretty enough these days, well, I put it down to that anyway.
But confidence is a key thing, and I have none of it.
And with my last relationship, well, he just took me for granted, and underestimated my intellegence. By thinking I wouldn't realise he cheated on me.
I investigated it as well.
I know exactly whats going on with a lot of people important to me in my life, those who don't tell me whats going on I try to find out.
But back to helping you.
Its a bit like what kaye said, maybe your looking too hard.
Sometimes someone can be right under your nose and you are looking so hard you can't find them
Trust me, relax. Try making friends and chatting and socialising and acting like your not just looking for someone, and then something could turn to be more than just friends. Looking for friends could mean finding a girlfriend, but not looking too needy and desperate for one, make it look like she's going to be special and then it will probably work out. Those who look for girlfriends too hard never find one because they miss all the good opportunities and then overlook the friendships that could be made, which could turn out to being more than just friends in the end even if it doesnt seem like it could turn out that way in the beginning.
And being single is very dull, I agree.
But try to focus on other things and don't worry too much about it, if you relax and just have confidence in yourself and focus on being charming and sweet to the laydees then you shouldn't have any problem. Sometimes endlessly flirting with girls can be a downfall, so don't do that too much. Because if you flirt with one girl, and then she thinks...ooh he's nice, and then she realises you do the same to all other girls, then it makes them feel like shit and they will think your just sleazy and not worth it and going to be like that in a relationship.
And sometimes flirting too much can be intimidating.
Flirting a bit can be a good thing, but remember, simple compliments are everything a girl wants. ;)

[Conal]

Im always myself and always am nice to people, especially girls; any girl really. But when it gets to a girl that i like, i am still the same but it turns out their taken!

Like i have found out that nearly all the girls in my college aren't single. What the ****is goin on. In Secondary school i was like on of few people to have a proper gf!

I mean i have to speak to the female species (lol) all the time, I work at H&M for goodness sake. So i have a lot of practice.

Oh well maybe i should just wait or go out one night or go to a party. There is a party at my friends house on monday. Maybe that may be a chance.

I dunno

[-Snake-]

maybe you're waiting too hard? don't look for someone, then you might find them, if you get me.

Its true, try lowering your standards dont get me wrong but sometimes beauty is all about whats on the outside!

[funeralofhearts]

don't try. just go with the flow & be yourself.& be nice.

[Patriot1776]

What I've found works the most is just waiting and then taking action when the oppurtunity presents itself.

Granted, the relationship may not always work out.

Just keep waiting, it may be hard, but the oppurtunity will present itself.

[iaxa]

i gave up on trying to get a gf in year 9. the girls at my school ar every picky they only go for the really buff surfers or the lil whimpy emos . never the normal people.
but i have learnt to except that. cept for this one girl that goes to my school i would give anythign to talk to her but she never seems willing to talk to anyone outside of her group.