have you ever met two best friends one is friendly and one is rude?

[babybell321]

i made two friends, i can be bubbly and outgoing and friendly when meeting new people. friend1 is very open with my conversations and very nice and friendly, and friend 2 gives me dirty looks and ignorant towards me and is not interested in what i have to say? i'm just wondering how they become best friends in the first place

[babybell321]

if you meet someone bubbly, confident and friendly, wouldn't you give them the same treatment

[CHIPstick5]

Friend 2 might be jealous of you being friends with friend 1, like you are trying to steal their friend

[babybell321]

well, to be honest i tried to be friedns with friend 2 too so why should she be jealous. i did mention if she was jealous, she was aback by what I said. i said i'm not taking your friend away, i'm clearly just being friendly with both of you. i felt that you don't want to make friends with me. she says that it's the way she is. it's the way she is to be ignorant when she meets people is it?

[CHIPstick5]

She might be shy, it just shows itself in that way

[Charlotte(:]

^ Agreed.

I'm really quiet when i meet new people. Sometimes it can be taken as ignorance. Maybe she's just unsure of you? As she doesn't really know you.

The only advice i could suggest would to just carry on being yourself. Get to know each other a bit better. She might turn out to be a really nice person. If not, well then she's not worth the effort.

[Thok]

friends dont have to be the same as each other lol

Alot of people think im a shit person when they first start talkin to me (just ask darts lol she can tell you how much of a dick i am at first) but thats just how i am. Maybe she is the same

[bethsy:)]

That's what people think about me when they first meet me. My two bestfriends are all outgoing and talkative. And I take my time to observe people. And the result of that, is that other think i'm rude. Or heck, maybe she doesnt like you :p

[kiahrose31]

no two people are alike, so it's understandable that they would react differently to you. just keep being yourself, if it's meant to be, she'll come around.

[babybell321]

thanx guys, its come to a point where when I talk to friend 1, I automatically ignore friend 2 cos i'm so tired of making the effort of starting the conversation with her. i guess when the time comes she'll start talking to me first

[Leon]

That's because people that contrast go together.

Amazing stuff.

[stargirl]

I know this can sometime seem weird how it happens but it used to be like this with me and my best friend. I like to try and please everyone but it took her longer to like and trust people. Maybe she just needs time.

[soggytoast]

i can be bubbly
the calling card of a fat person.

[Karin]

I know a couple with the same thing. He is always open and friendly and shes a total bitch.
I never understand how he can love her.