Dont know what to do

[RawrBaaybee]

So last night i asked my boyfriend a simple question of whether he would ever cheat on me or lie to me? and the way he reacted was not how i thought he would.
It turned into a massive arguement about whether i trust him or believe the things he says. and i do.
He doesn't understand that so many other lads have done it to me before and that its hard to have complete trust in someone straight away.

Now none of us know whats going on cause last night i thought it was over and today its not... but he said he needs to think about us... does this mean he is going to end it?

cause i really don't want him too he means the world to me and to just be his friend would be practically impossible i just dont know what to do =/ x

[fuzzylumpkins]

...is this the one who's thirteen?

but i suppose if you're looking for what to do...you could try (dare i say it) talking to him instead of a forum?

[RawrBaaybee]

hes 14 and yeah i have tried but he says he just needs to think but then last night he posted his thread about how he wanted me back and that he didnt want to dump me but today its all different

[WastedlittleDj]

The thing is with 14 year old lads is, they're immature and they do silly things like post it all over a forum his ex gf/gf is on, so she can see it.

Try phoning him and having it out with him over the phone, and if he doesn't listen to how you feel, make him listen.

[nyx]

Why are you suggesting these less public methods? Where am I meant to get my entertainment from if you do that?

[RawrBaaybee]

yeah hes phoning me tonight but i dunno what im meant to say to him he knows how i feel he just doesn't understand

[WastedlittleDj]

Try and make him understand as hard as it is, but you do realise as lads get older they do keep the same 14 year old mentality ...... sometimes 12 if you're as unlucky lol

[RawrBaaybee]

well i try but its hard cause he still says he needs to think about it but i don't get how he can go from i love you loads to not knowing whether he wants to be with me or not in the space of like 6 hours

[WastedlittleDj]

I might be wrong in saying this but I'm seeing this happen to a good mate of mine, and this is the advice I gave him; if they say 'I need to think about it', then they are not worth it and not worth waiting for. The fact he went from 'I love you' to that instantly should ring alarm bells and the chances of him doing it again to you yet again by upsetting you and making you wait for 'his decision' is very high in my opinion.

But at the end of the day it's what makes you happy dear :)

[RawrBaaybee]

yeah i agree with you but i cant see myself being anything other than his girlfriend but mi gnna be like seeing him every weekend and stuff and its going to be hard to just try and be his friend if it comes to that