Confused!!

[richardsbaby07]

Okay.. before i met richard {the guy i'm lyking right now} i had sex with my ex-boyfriend who i loved for FOUR long years... well i'm not sure if he pulled out before he cummed... but i THINK he did... i'm really scared... nd i dont wanna talk to that guy nemore becuz us havin sex finally made me realize that i was just being used.... what do i do about this boy?? nd i'm not gonna tell richard b/c this happened b4 i even started TALKING to Richard.... i lyk richard now and i wanna be with him... but i've got the guy that i loved for four years stuck in the back of my mind!!! PLZ HELP ME!?!?!:confused: :(

[Pearson]

Okay.. before i met richard {the guy i'm lyking right now} i had sex with my ex-boyfriend who i loved for FOUR long years... well i'm not sure if he pulled out before he cummed... but i THINK he did... i'm really scared... nd i dont wanna talk to that guy nemore becuz us havin sex finally made me realize that i was just being used.... what do i do about this boy?? nd i'm not gonna tell richard b/c this happened b4 i even started TALKING to Richard.... i lyk richard now and i wanna be with him... but i've got the guy that i loved for four years stuck in the back of my mind!!! PLZ HELP ME!?!?!:confused: :(

if he was with you for four years i doubt he was using you for sex.

[Stephanie]

Okay.. before i met richard {the guy i'm lyking right now} i had sex with my ex-boyfriend who i loved for FOUR long years... well i'm not sure if he pulled out before he cummed... but i THINK he did... i'm really scared... nd i dont wanna talk to that guy nemore becuz us havin sex finally made me realize that i was just being used.... what do i do about this boy?? nd i'm not gonna tell richard b/c this happened b4 i even started TALKING to Richard.... i lyk richard now and i wanna be with him... but i've got the guy that i loved for four years stuck in the back of my mind!!! PLZ HELP ME!?!?!:confused: :(

Hmm...I'd be more concerned about whether you're pregnant or not! You should never use the "Withrawel method" (also known as the "Pull out method") as a form of contraception as there is an EXTREMELY high chance of it not working. Especially because of pre-cum.

Did you take the morning after pill?? If you didn't then you really should get yourself checked out!

[richardsbaby07]

i didnt get myself checked out jus b/c i have a physical this coming friday... but i'm not really worried b/c i'm not showing ANY signs of pregnancy... which is good on my part... i'm NOT talkin to the guy that i had sex w/ nemore... i even took the step as of to blocking him on my instant messenger... but i guess i'm jus really stupid to of had sex with that guy.. o yea {by the way} i wasnt techinically DATING him for four years... we jus talked lyk we were datin for four years behind ppls backs!!!

[megz]

hia, well av u missed a period is the first question? so u n this guy 'went out' for 4 years, wel that seems like a long time, n 2bh i dnt tink e went with u 4 sex, i tink e lked u, do u n im still talk? ppl av told me that by not talkin 2 im the feelings will go away im still waitin 4 this 2 happen myself, its hard to gt over sum1 u av been with 4 a long time, n if u lyk this guy then u shud go 4 it if u decide it isnt workin u cn always split with richard, do what u feel is right its the best way
xxx

[richardsbaby07]

i'm sposed to start my period next friday... but i'm showin all the signs that i'm about to start my period... me nd him dont talk nemore... but i'm missin him more nd more every day that i dont talk to him... i feel lyk i'm lost sumtimes w/o him.. but o well.. iono wut else to do!!!

[chrisbrowngurl]

I don't think he was using u because ya'll been together for 4 years so I really don't know

[megz]

Dont worry things will sort themselves out in time, i know its hard but if e is the one then u will b 2gether agen soon, i want my ex back n we talk all the time but i av 2 leave it n think if we are meant to be together we wil be in the future but at the moment live life 2 the full xxxx

[Boy_Wonder06]

hey, firstly i would like to say, what ever you do, never use that method ever again, withdrawal, is so unsafe. Erm You dont seem to be over fussed on ur ex, so personally i would concentrate on keeping things goign with your current boyfriend. The naggin noise at the back of your head about your ex is just memories, cuz ur feeling 'emotions and feelings' llike you probs felt for him, but they will pass soon. And do me a faovr please make sure if you get any signs of pregnancy or even STD's get yourself to a doctor! Gd luk

[richardsbaby07]

thanks everyone for ur help.. but i kno i'm not pregnant now... nd i dont have ANY STD's... once again.. thanks so much