He leads me on

[Sweetcorn101]

Ok will someone tell me if this is right. Im 15 and the guy i thought i was going to end up dating is i think 18, yes it is illegal i know but still. i didn't know he was 18 until yesturday he told me that he wanted to be with me and the whole nine yards and blah blah blah. Made me believe that he was gonna ask me out. For him to just yesturday tell me(yell at me) the it was illegal period and just talking about being together was illegal? tell me if i'm wrong but. Wasn't he wrong for leading me on and pretty much telling me the he wanted to be with me, then when i tried to further it he tells me that?

[-Snake-]

Who gives a shit about it being illegal, IF theres grass on the pitch your allowed to have a game...

But he did lead you on, Hes just a prick luv not ur fault! :(

[NATAL!E]

I think you're right on this one love, for a guy to lead a girl on, it's very unfair, and same with the other way round.

If he was 18 or not, it was still wrong of him to so much as flirt with you, let alone tell you he wanted to be with you.

The best thing is just to move on and forget about him, because he's obviously not worth your time or effort in a relationship.

[Guest]

Thanks guys your right. And i would just move on and forget about him but we were really close friends before all this happend and i'd like to stay that way but i would also like to tell him that what he did was wrong, but without making him mad!

[Sweetcorn101]

The best thing is just to move on and forget about him, because he's obviously not worth your time or effort in a relationship.

See i'd love to just move on but we were really really close friends before this whole drama, and i'd like to stay that way, only i'd like it more if i could let him know without making him mad that what he did was wrong and very hurtful

[NATAL!E]

Just tell him straight then. if you're good friends, you should be able to be open with him about issues and stuff, so if you tell him he hurt you a lot by making you think there was something, but you still want to be friends with him.

[Sweetcorn101]

I'll try it when he's feeling better thanks for the advice guys