Is he lying?

[Guest]

i've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and we are very much in love. i've never been in love before and he says that he hasnt either. we go to school together but he's in the year below me so we've never really hung out before we got together. i know about his past girlfriends etc. and know theres nothing to worry about but the other day i found a love letter from his ex in one of his draws. its dated from before we went out so im not bothered but next to it there was a letter from him to her confessing his love. i asked him about it and he said it wasnt him that wrote it and it was a joke from a friend. but it was in his hand writing and is similar to ones he's given me. is he lying to me? i thought we told each other everything but now im not so sure! what do i do?
help from 17yr old guys would be nice to see from their point of view! thanks

[anti-person]

He might have wohe might have thort he loved his ex at the time and now relises that it wasnt love that he felt for her. he may really be in love with you and now its true because he feels more for you than his ex.
even if he is lying about this 1 little thing (that is unlikely) is it really worth woring about if you love each over?

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

I personally hear those excuses from my Boyfriend all the time and I know they are lies and that is precisely why he is no longer my Boyfriend, and your Boyfriend will just continue lying to you so he's lying, yeah.

[taosc]

ok well, consider if he wrote this letter as a reply to hers before he got with you then sat on the thought of sending it as he met you.
so maybe he just never got round to sending it because he realised he liked you. and that if he sent it he might loose you.
although as a back up he may have kept it incase you 2 finished.
i still have love letters cards etc under my bed from my ex's.
fact is we all like remembering what we had when it was good.

[fletch]

well said tosac whats so wrong with memories?

[taosc]

cheers mate ;) ...
nothing we all love memories

[swingxlifexaway]

He might have wohe might have thort he loved his ex at the time and now relises that it wasnt love that he felt for her. he may really be in love with you and now its true because he feels more for you than his ex.
even if he is lying about this 1 little thing (that is unlikely) is it really worth woring about if you love each over?
Totally agree! I don't think he's telling the truth, because those things are hardly ever true. But that's just me...