My 3rd very unlucky friend...

[Tommeh!!!]

Well joy joy joy, my friend has a cancerous tumour on his brain and may only have 2 years left to live. this is pretty bad news considering my other friend is having trouble finding a donor for her leukemia and my oldest friend is undergoing Radiotherapy for his bowel cancer. this really is wearing me down now, they are the least deserving people too....why cant rapists an paedophiles die from cancer instead of the nice young people with alot of potential in life? fucking shitty cancer. grrr.

[Asi9ine]

Help him enjoy the last years of his life then Tommeh.

And yes, it gets the best people, while the ones who deserve no quality of life (the murderers/cheats) continue to glide by. Makes you sick, doesnt it?

But like I asked before, just give him the best 2 years a mate can give, man.

[Tommeh!!!]

yupe we were planning that the other day. we got very stoned and planned lots...cant remember alot of it though. but we did have fun.

[angisson]

Tommeh!!!, I feel for you, its hard to havwe a friend with cancer.


all I can really say is just givehim the best time of his life, if you can't help in no other way, just letting him know your there and you support him is prob good enough.

Good Luck with it and make shure you keep us updated.

[Pearson]

Well joy joy joy, my friend has a cancerous tumour on his brain and may only have 2 years left to live. this is pretty bad news considering my other friend is having trouble finding a donor for her leukemia and my oldest friend is undergoing Radiotherapy for his bowel cancer. this really is wearing me down now, they are the least deserving people too....why cant rapists an paedophiles die from cancer instead of the nice young people with alot of potential in life? f*cking shitty cancer. grrr.

mate, feel for you. Thats ridicolous, three mates wi cancer! bleeding hell

[~Wayne~]

Cancer is a terrible thing within anyone...especially close friends/relatives

[iaxa]

yeah ... dont let them go through this alone okay .. thats what my grandad did and it made my mum really upset ... she was like crying for a couple years about it!

[Lindsay]

aww tommeh love that really sucks :(

i'll talk to you tomorrow on msn about it okayyy?? xxxxx

[Tommeh!!!]

thanks peoples, plans are underway for much summer foolery and such. He started Chemo today, so fingers crossed for him...and the other two of course.

Sounds good Linds, till then, xxx

[Bob!]

Aye I kinda get ya, one of my colleagues from work was diagnosed with lukemia a while ago, with 10% chance to live, he is 21.

Made me feel kinda shit at first as theres me with health but little potential, and theres him with great potential but no health cause of the cancer, and he had a 90% chance to have his life end at 21.

He's been undergoing the chemotherapy, hair falling out and makes feel crap as to em pumping shit into your blood, also his immune system is very very low as the treatment ended up killing most of his white cells as well, so he couldnt really go out or anything.

But, we heard he will now be returning to work on the 8th of may, so I guess the 10% really is somethin ya?

So basically if things look bad, prepare for the worst but hope for the best as they say as it might really work out, hell even if its 1% or lower, theres still somethin, just make the best outa it, treat the guy as if he will live, help him to be happy and have fun and hope he pulls through.

If not, then worry about the big risk after.

[Tommeh!!!]

yeah true, i was with the boyfriend of the leukemia sufferer today and he was saying they are now waiting for her white cell count to drop....but that could be either 3 months or 10 years....thats before they can do the marrow transplant. thats whats gettin to her the most...all the waiting, feeeling shitty and stuff. shes also big into athletics too, supposed to be with us two today at a tournament, but obviously shes just too ill today. :(

[allie89]

my brother died from leukemia 20 years ago but they have made SO many advancements in all types of cancer. i was at relay for life the other night (fundraiser for cancer) and it was amazing the amount of people that survived cancer. my ex had stage 4 lymphoma and he is still living today. its been about a year now. i heard of someone who is a 60 yr cancer survivor. just keep your friend positive and don't think he is going to die. yes have fun with him but don't tell him he is going to die. there IS hope.

[Tommeh!!!]

man id never even mention that hes gonna die, theres one thing knonwing it yourself...but another having people throwing it in your face and m,aking a big scene, like it was suggested, were gonna act like hes fine, have fun, get on with life. best way rly. very sorry to hear bout your bro though, thats very sad. :(

[allie89]

yea i know its sad and yes i do cry about it. but anyways just ALWAYS be positive. there is actually a study that says that stay positive is half the battle of cancer. seriously u can't let ur friend give up hope of living.

[Tommeh!!!]

yeah, i wanna think positive! thankfully hes not the type to give up. :)