I hate my life

[shotbyajackgun]

Everyone seems to make fun of me and knock me down when im feeling high, its really starting to get to me. i nearly resorted to self harming myself yesterday. does anyone have any advice on how to cheer myself up

[iaxa]

just watch a funny movie or sumfing .. trust me dont hurt ya self cause your only 14 what you have got your hole life to live for . things will get better. also just tell the guys who are making you upset about hpw you feel. noone should have to go through that okay. feel free to p.m about this it always helps to talk about things.

[Morons]

Would you like a nice pair of shoes with that dress, Iaxa?

[totz]

pointless??? sometimes ppl self harm to get noticed or they do it becoz theyve got nuffing else or coz they feel they deserve it or coz lifes crap but to that person at that time it isnt piontless......... so gal i dont think shoes or a dress wil help....well it mite.......try writing poetry about stuff.or talk to some one....it always helps.....im not allowed to advertise sites on here so if ya find my email ill talk to ya...but plz dont start sefl harming!!!!

[Charley]

What i would do is goa nd see some friends have a chat bout random things that ahould make you feel better

[chloe2006]

dont self harm ur self iv thought bout it myself nd i jst thought thrs far worse people thn me lyk poor children hu r orphans have to work for themselves stuff lyk tht nd thy manage to cope.. talk to me people bout it preferbly people hu have bin in tht situation be4 as thy cn tell u wht thy do.. but dont self harm ur 14 the future is going to be brilliant for u - great things r going to happen. take care xxx

[lana loo]

darlin .... you are going through a hard time. and im not goin to lie to you, it is going to take some time before it gets to what you want. i know what it feels like, ive been to hell and back these couple of months. and i thought about self-harm, but huni, its the easy way out. It's easier said than done, but .... dont let them see that your hurt and that your emotionally hurt cos thats what they wana see.

hold your head up high and show them that your strong willed. lifes a bitch and you get a load of shit thrown at ya, but ya gotta give em the finger and dont let anything bring you down.

if ya need anymore advise from someone with experience (am new on ere so i dno how the site wrks yet) but send me a msg and i'l help ya throught it :)

[Mr. Angst]

Don't worry about it mate, you're only 14. People at that age can be really mean, but trust me, as they get more mature you'll find they pick on you a lot less and you'll be much more accepted. I found it was around the age of 15 where people started to be more friendly-and also bear in mind the ONLY reason people pick on others is because they are insecure in themselves! Just ignore 'em man. I know this sounds tough but your best bet is to weather the storm.

[me1]

yeah this might be a stupid way to do things but what i do is have a few beers and watch a really funny film like 'freddy got fingered' or summet. it has worked for me for the past few years anyway, better than other ways i used t deal with things.
but it helps to chill you out and have a few laughs jus dont drink so much so that you get paraletic, that jus makes you feel worse lol.

[Touch It]

a really funny film like 'freddy got fingered'

That's perverted.

[bOrNrAcEr88]

dont let it get to you. kill them with kindness

[katatthedisco]

well, i think i can give u some good advice since i self harm. idk what type u were thinking of, but i cut. sometimes, instead of cutting, i like to keep my hands busy, like doing arts and crafts. i dont know if you would be interested in that, but it sometimes works for me and it makes me happy. if you ever need to talk to anybody..feel free to message me <3 kath:)

[Darts]

I appreciate that you're probably going through a rough time, but seriously whatever it is- Get over it! Nothing is bad enough that you can't vent by doing something productive or pointless (not that self harming has much of a point but it comes under negative in my opinion) for example even ranting about your problems over and over again is better than resorting to self-harm.

Don't let the negative part of your mind take over, it'll stop you from doing anything. And you're stronger than that, you must be to admit those things to us lot. You know there are people who love you. And people who enjoy talking to you. We know how you feel darlin. Cheer up!

[Fairy]

Dont listen to them they aint worth it.
U no urself betta than any1 else.
They dont no u and r jelouse of u cus ur a cool person!
:) :) :)

[KathyN]

I'm in a similar situation... I want to talk and maybe we will find the way to solve it.

You need a friend to be in your side when you need him, you need someone who can listen to you.

Never harm yourself for those who don't worth it.