Can you deside whether i'm Bi or Lesbian?

[GoddessUndaHell]

Hello. I tell you all this. Ive been beyond stress out lately because of confusion. I have a boy friend and we have been dating for months now. He's in love with me and truly want to marry me in the future, but unfortunatly my head is tilted in a different direction because I'm dealing with a major issue. The issue is ive been having a strong desire for women for 4 years now and as time goes by the desire is getting stronger and stronger. my boyfriend gets jealous of what i feel about girls so I have'nt had sex with another girl yet however i think about it everyday. my boyfriend is the only man id ever give a chance to because my desire has died with males so he does know that if me and him ever break up i'm going to turn lesbian right off. I care about my boy friend and sex is good buti dont think i give my all for him because how i feel about women. he's such a good guy so i dont want to hurt him and let him go but i dont think id ever give up my dark side. I dont know what to do... and im confused with who and what i am because it's almost as if im a lesbian with a boy friend. what would you do if you were me???

[phaggot]

well, goddess unda hell, you're a nigger

[Odin]

Tell him you want to have sex with another hot chick AND him at the same time.

That way, you can truly tell if you like the vagine and he gets to have a threesome.

If he turns it down, he's gay.

[popeye]

1. You're definitely confused.
2. You should definitely try your ways with a woman or two before making any long term decisions.

[Beans]

I can't "Deside" anything, but i've decided you're stupid.

Go cheat on him with a girl.

[idk]

I pretty much think bisexuality is a psychological thing. I bet you would figure out your true sexuality if you steered away from the western media's portrayal of female sexuality.

[vampireonion]

Your definitely confused. As popeye said you should try thigns with another women before doing anything else. It's unfair to your boyfriend if you don't and marry him. It'll just get worse because you're extremely curious. You'll have to figure this out before you go any farther with him.

[aglarana]

maybe confused indeed in my case i am bi i know for sure i dated both guys and girls and it feels the same to me but yea trie and see if u are feeling like u are not beeing yourself in the relationship then something has to change because like this u are not happy and neither is he so u can't keep doing that

[Shane]

Isn't this the sort of thing you're supposed to decide for yourself?

[w3bmaster]

I think you are very confused ...

[Beans]

the term megafag has sprung to mind

[madhatter]

Right, stop being an idiot.

Firstly, why do you feel the need to classify yourself? Can't you just roll with whatever is happening? If you fancy a girl, then you fancy a girl. If you fancy a boy, then you fancy a boy. Just because there isn't a guy out there for you right this minute doesn't mean there never will be. Though to be honest I don't believe any person is completely straight - gender shouldn't be something to get in the way of love.

How old are you? The font you've chosen just gives me the impression that you're fairly young, maybe 14? Sorry if I'm being presumptuous...

Anyway, this guy wants to marry you? I'm sure that you're not at an age to be thinking about this kind of thing yet. And if you don't feel the same, that's fine.

Do you like him at all? Because if you don't, you shouldn't be with him - that's just how it is.

Does it matter if you become a lesbian if you dump him? If you don't want to be with him then end it, and if you meet someone you want to be with, then be with them, whether they be a boy or girl.

Hope I've helped and this wasn't too long/bitchy to read.

[phaggot]

Right, stop being an idiot.

Firstly, why do you feel the need to classify yourself? Can't you just roll with whatever is happening? If you fancy a girl, then you fancy a girl. If you fancy a boy, then you fancy a boy. Just because there isn't a guy out there for you right this minute doesn't mean there never will be. Though to be honest I don't believe any person is completely straight - gender shouldn't be something to get in the way of love.

How old are you? The font you've chosen just gives me the impression that you're fairly young, maybe 14? Sorry if I'm being presumptuous...

Anyway, this guy wants to marry you? I'm sure that you're not at an age to be thinking about this kind of thing yet. And if you don't feel the same, that's fine.

Do you like him at all? Because if you don't, you shouldn't be with him - that's just how it is.

Does it matter if you become a lesbian if you dump him? If you don't want to be with him then end it, and if you meet someone you want to be with, then be with them, whether they be a boy or girl.

Hope I've helped and this wasn't too long/bitchy to read.terrible

[mintiifreshh]

I think you might care about him and all, but in a friendly way. From what you've said I don't think you love him in a way to where you want to be with him and love him, but you care for him and just don't want to hurt his feelings. I think you're a lesbian, but you could be Bi. Who knows? You'll figure it out one day.

[skorpion]

oh you are soooooooooooooooooooooooooo gay

[Jinxieminx]

lolbob, stfu.

[ohhappyday]

You are confused, that much is certain. You really need to take sometime to decide what you want, if you don't actually want to be with the guy, then don't. He deserves someone that wants him. If you do want to be with him, then continue to be with him, and don't worry too much about liking girls, you may have just got a 'crush on her' because you admire many of her qualities. I also don't think you should label yourself, nothings ever as black and white as it seems- there is always a grey area.

[piraya]

why do you need to find out right away? why not just... let it come whats coming(or something).
if u don't want ur boyfriend: end it

[Pwnagekyatt]

I think you are perfectly normal. There are many straight people who explore in same gender sex. I don't mean to sound like a stupid old granny when I say this, but no one's perfect. It can feel strange, but is very common. I often wonder what it feels like to have sex with men, and so do many of my friends.

[skorpion]

maybe u are gay too
as time goes by the desire is getting stronger and stronger

[Duvets]

maybe u are skorpoin too
as time goes by the annoying is getting stronger and stronger

[Pwnagekyatt]

Maybe your gay, too! Maybe we're all gay! Why don"t we just say that everyone is gay, you faggot!

[skorpion]

duvets.. I feel like u have a problem with me..
what the hell is a skorpoin anyway ?

[Duvets]

Really? REALLY?

[skorpion]

is it because u feel i never give u enough attention ?

[Duvets]

That's exactly the problem, my love :'(

[skorpion]

i know i know.. i do get a lot of fans like u
but i guess u knew when u fell for me that i was way out of your league anyway
so why did u insist on giving urself false hope

[Duvets]

PAHHAHAHAHAAAaa