Wanting to let go but can't...........

[Teen&luvinit]

Well, ok so my boyfriend dumped me for my get this ARCH ENEMY! i mean i can't hate someone but i dislike her with a passion! So i know he is over me because he told me he was. But the problem is not only has this been the worst spring break ever because he dumped me, He told me he still wanted to be friends with me. And he also said he hoped i understood. I definitly don't understand why he dumped me? i mean what is better about briana(that is his new g/f) I mean what does she have that i don't?? I have tried to look inside and recount what i had been doing wrong. But i can't find anything. And now he never even talks to me even after he said that he still wanted to be friends! I DON'T UNDERSTAND! i mean. i can't help but to think that she is better than me and that he was just using me! i have cried and cried and i even called him to figure out when we could like hang out as friends but he told me he was too busy for me this week and that the minute there was a opening in his schedule, he would call me to get together. HE is like acting like i am a client and not his so called friend. I mean i can understand if he wants to be with her but i don't want it affecting mine and his friendship over him dumping me adn i don't want him to feel obligated to have to stay friends with me if he isn't comfortable but i can't keep him on the phone long enough to tell him that. AND i am still in deep deep love with him. i mean how can i hang with him as afriend when he means soo much more than just a friend to me????? I just can't let go of his decision and more importantly him as a boyfriend. How can i start seeing him a friend and not anything more after all we have been through??

[Morazain]

That is what we call growing up you have just experienced the ultimate blow. THat one could get after they start the dating game. But do not fear because this shall help to understand part of it at least imagine that your eyes are open and you don't need glasses or anyhting you can see things clearly but there are some people who get so wound up in there own little world that they can't see staright and clearly of what they want and what they need.

You see what would sometimes happen to someone in your position is that they get confused and in they're confusion also become clouded they become obsessed I can't understand why he what he did all I can tell you is that keep your clear vision and accept what has happend.

[dead_rose]

if he has chosen not to meet u then dont meet him either.keep ur dignity and move on no matter how difficult it is because there isnt much future in you pleading for him to leave his current gf and return to you.if he's chosen to be with someone else, respect it and move on silently.If he does come back be sure u want him back since he dumped u for someone else.Whatever happens keep your dignity and be sure to have the support of your friends.Go out and spend time with your girlfriends.oh and do not get on with another guy if u are not completely sure that u have got over your last bf.hope i've helped :)