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September 16th '10, 09:13 PM
I have not been on this forum in years. Got a reminder e-mail and I thought; why not?
So, in December 2009 I got together with this really cute girl. We had so many perfect months together. I enjoyed every second we shared, I am not embarrassed to say that I loved her more than I have ever loved anyone before. She was my first real girlfriend, achieved at the age of 17. I thought we were going to be together forever. She had a 3 years long relationship that ended about 2-3 months before we got together. During August however, stuff changed. She did not show me that she loved my as she usually would (kiss me, hug me, stay close to me and such). I thought a little about it, but that was all.
So, the 30th august I get this SMS saying that we needed to talk. I get all scared because she never uses those words. The 31st she ended it because she had lost feelings. I understood why things had felt so weird lately. I was heartbroken and I still am.
My question to you is: how did you deal with something like this? We shared so much the months we were together, even now, 2 weeks after the breakup I am not over her. Or..things are starting to get better. But if I hear that she fools around with anyone I will be so jealous. Any great tips from you?
We have not spoken in 2 weeks, accept one day when I visited her, and today, since I e-mailed her at Facebook saying I would remove her as a friend because it hurt too much to see her activities and see her name in the top of the chat all day long.
Anyone? <3
So, in December 2009 I got together with this really cute girl. We had so many perfect months together. I enjoyed every second we shared, I am not embarrassed to say that I loved her more than I have ever loved anyone before. She was my first real girlfriend, achieved at the age of 17. I thought we were going to be together forever. She had a 3 years long relationship that ended about 2-3 months before we got together. During August however, stuff changed. She did not show me that she loved my as she usually would (kiss me, hug me, stay close to me and such). I thought a little about it, but that was all.
So, the 30th august I get this SMS saying that we needed to talk. I get all scared because she never uses those words. The 31st she ended it because she had lost feelings. I understood why things had felt so weird lately. I was heartbroken and I still am.
My question to you is: how did you deal with something like this? We shared so much the months we were together, even now, 2 weeks after the breakup I am not over her. Or..things are starting to get better. But if I hear that she fools around with anyone I will be so jealous. Any great tips from you?
We have not spoken in 2 weeks, accept one day when I visited her, and today, since I e-mailed her at Facebook saying I would remove her as a friend because it hurt too much to see her activities and see her name in the top of the chat all day long.
Anyone? <3