This girl....

[Luke]

There's this girl who I think is proper fit. I don't just like her for looks, I can have a conversation with her for aaages about everything really. I don't think she knows how I feel about her but recently she's been sort of seeing this other lad. She's all over him right infront of me. Getting off with him, touching, groping, fondling etc etc.....

It's starting to piss me off. I don't really write in the advice section very often lol so this is how bad it's getting.

Don't know what to do really.

Please don't tell me to tell her how I feel about her. I can't. I know you'll still say that though lol.

[Bob!]

Well if she's so much allover the other dude, I'd say the best way would basically try to tune down your "feelings" for her as much as possible and just view her as a normal friend, seems she wants him for the sexual stuff.

Then try and find sumone else who would rather be allover you instead :)

Easier said than done I know lol. :/

[Luke]

Yeah it is. I've tried not to think about her but I just can't lol. She's on my mind all time.

[lana loo]

its love lol

all i can say huni, is try n get noticed by her, get her attention and work from that lol

[Luke]

I've got a bit of a reputation for treating my girlfriends not so good though.

I got hammered last time.

[lana loo]

i had the same rep around ere darlin, you've got to show her tht uve changed your rep. and are bookin your ideas up, or else she'll just wlk on by, and judgin by the way u tlk about her u dont want tht to happen at all ...

[Luke]

i had the same rep around ere darlin, you've got to show her tht uve changed your rep. and are bookin your ideas up, or else she'll just wlk on by, and judgin by the way u tlk about her u dont want tht to happen at all ...

Yeah well. It's not really a rep i've got, it's like I treated a girl pretty shitty and everyone just remembers lol.

[lana loo]

yeah thts a rep hun lol teaches ya to treat lasses like shit, cos we gossip alot :rolleyes:

but seriously, like i said if you want to tell her your feelings (which i can understand) get her to notice you and see you for a nice lad tht u are, n not a user with women ...

good luck :p

[~Wayne~]

Twat the guy.

Nah only joking, looks like only thing is to do is turn away and move on mate

[Lextasy]

It seems to me that she just wants to make you jealous. She most probably likes you back but has been dissapointed how you haven't made a move on her. She's flaunting her new guy to try and get you angry and jealous. If you tell her how you feel then she most probably will tell you how she feels too. Just go for it ;)

[Mamfy]

Just make her feel good and treat her well. Give her more attention than you would do for a friend, let her know how you feel subtley and maybe she will latch on :)

[Luke]

It seems to me that she just wants to make you jealous. She most probably likes you back but has been dissapointed how you haven't made a move on her. She's flaunting her new guy to try and get you angry and jealous. If you tell her how you feel then she most probably will tell you how she feels too. Just go for it ;)

Nah. She isn't trying to make me jealous. She isn't like that.

[Bob!]

Either way its kinda disrespectful shes doin all that infront o ya.

I mean whether she knows ya like her or not, its still not nice to slobber allover sumone infront of sumone else.

[Lindsay]

It seems to me that she just wants to make you jealous. She most probably likes you back but has been dissapointed how you haven't made a move on her. She's flaunting her new guy to try and get you angry and jealous. If you tell her how you feel then she most probably will tell you how she feels too. Just go for it ;)

yeah good post.

i know its not what you want to hear, but i think you should just tell her. You don't want to wonder what would have happened right? because there's a chance she feels the same.