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Guest11
June 8th '06, 02:43 AM
So i've got a bit of a sticky situation here and I dont know what to do. Well I have 2 exs, we'll call them #1 and #2. Let me just mention that I live with #2. Well I dated #1 for about 6 months, and after, dated #2 for about a year and a half. After me and #2 broke up, me and #1 got back together and eventually fooled around a bit, well that didnt last very long. Me and him just werent meant to be. We both agreed to just be friends, but when we saw eachother we always wanted to be more than friends. So eventually me and #1 stopped talking as much and kinda drifted away from each other. Well me and #1 had a conversation, of which he was very mean, and called me all these names and stuff and said that all I was to him was a whore and stuff. So I was like w/e, and just completly stopped talking to him. About a day later he emailed me saying that he just said that stuff cause he was mad, and that he wanted to be friends, I emailed him back and said that I dindt know how well a friendship with him would be and that I didnt really care anymore if me and him were friends so it was up to him. So he emailed me back and was like w/e then were not friends and he got mean again and was like all you were ever good at was suckin' dick anyways, you meant nothing to me. I didnt respond back to that email because I dont have time for that immature ignorance. Well now #1 is calling #2 and saying shit like "i killed your fuckin mom and our gramas gonna die" and shit like that. I mean this is out of no where too. He just randomly called up tonight and left msgs saying shit like that. And that he wanted to fight. #1 and #2 both already fought twice, the first time #2 got hit, and the second #1 got hit. So it was fair or whatever, I guess. Im not into fighting so I kinda distanced myself from that shit and left. ..Anyways, I didnt tell #2 about these voicemails that were left, hes sleeping and I took his phones and deleted them. I dont want more shit to happen. Its over and done with. I dont get it, why is #1 still threatening #2 after me and him agreed to just not be friends anymore and stop talking. Its so random. How do I get this immature kid out of my and #2s life. Hes so voilent and I dont want to associate with that...

God.
June 8th '06, 08:41 AM
Phone the police, and tell them. You can get phone blockers and the like to ensure he can't phone you. What he's doing is harrassment, and is highly illegal.

Next time he leaves one, don't delete it. Tell #2, and phone the police. Keep it as evidence, and give them his details, and I'm confident it'll stop.