Me and my gf are been driven apart by pointless arguments

[anti-person]

iv been going out with my girlfriend for about 17 months now and couldnt love her move.
but lately weve both had alot 2 deal with iv had lot of family problems and health problems and shes been getting depressed over people at school saying things about her (u geussed it chavs!). with us both having these problems at the same time n it is hard for us we both have been very stressed and have been arguing over little daft things that make no sense.
i feel that its coursing us to drift apart and i dunno wot 2 do 2 stop us drifting apart.
none of our problems will go away for quite a while and im affread well drift 2 far apart and something will happen to course us to beack up be the problems go away

if any1 could offer me any advise id really apreshate it.
thank you

[Sweet_Cherry]

I think u shud prob. spend time w/ eachother, just the you two, on the weekends or something. Because if there's other ppl there dissing her, then u 2 shud probably stay away from them. If u have too many problems and are taking it out on eachother, then u shud part for a while. Relax a lil bit .
good luk :)

[Mamfy]

Don't worry. It is happening to me too. I went round my boyfriend last night, made all the effort to dress up do makeup etc, then he had a go at me whenw e got there, started raising his voice, and so I left, and he replied with 'good'

He left me to walk home on my own at half 9 last night and his house is far aweay from mine, about a 30-40 minute walk. I was pretty vulnerable last night, but my family were there for me, thank goodness.

[anti-person]

thank you il try spending some time alone with her
we are both off today so il go somewhere with her today meby a walk or something 2 get us away from people.
speaking of which these people arnt gonna stop upsetting her for like the nexy year n theres nout that can be done part from killing a couple of them (with im close 2 doing but i dont wont the jail time) but i really wont her 2 be happy and anything i do 2 try n cheer her up dosnt work.
when your upset how does your bf cheer you up?

[anti-person]

or how does any1s bf or gf cheer them you

[iaxa]

this is why i prefer to stay single.
got 2 questions for you
are you happy with them ?
is it worth it ?

[anti-person]

yes im happy when im with her the rest of my life is a fuck up shes the only good thing in my life. id just be even more happier if she was.
n is it worth it? personly id say yes its worth all the down moments if its with the right person.

[anti-person]

come on people please tell me how your bfs or gfs cheer you up
56 veiws n any1 has sed anything

[Bob!]

Most of those can be from people refreshing the page, or from mods like me simply patroling the topics :P

Atm sorry I cant help ya much on that subject as I dont have anyone.

But also people will reply in time if theyve got soem good things to say for ya, remember its been the weekend and even through the week people cant be on here constantly. As I said, you'll get some good replies if ya patient enuf :)

[Tim]

spend sum time with her alone, buy a gift e.g. flowers take her out just the 2 of you, if she int up for it book u and her in at a local beauty parlour [will relief the stress] or do both.

[Sweet_Cherry]

come on people please tell me how your bfs or gfs cheer you up
56 veiws n any1 has sed anything
Well....take her out for icecream!!! i swear it always cheers me up. double fudge. It's a girls comfort food :P

[anti-person]

lol i like it
wot a gr8 idea lol ice cream it is
id never have thort about that flowers n chocs meby but not ice cream

[CraigYohn!]

curse you Bob!

Anyways, go for it ¬_¬ (going to delete this one too?! it was a good post, how can you disagree?!?!?!?!)