how?

[elmobbe254]

I really like this guy, and we resintly started dating. When we got to talking this afternoon, he tells me that he doesn't want a searious relationship. But this is the first guy i think i truely like. Then he says that the reason he doesn't want a searious relationship is because the last couple of girlfriends he had, they broke up with him within a week. Even though it's been about, 3 days. I really want to stay in this relationship for a while because he's perfect. Plus my friends like him. But how do I keep this relationship if motion for more than a week, before he breaks up with me? Because I don't think that I can stand another break up.:confused:

[PrincessAlice]

if its gonna last it will give him no reason to break you with you :p

at end of the day if you do break you theres more men out there....

[Sponge'K'nob]

:agree:

And he has no reason to break up with you in a week.....he said that girls usually break it off with him in a week.
If you dont then you should be safe if you really like eachother :)

[KiKiDee]

if he classes a weeks relationship a serious one, he needs his head testin!

[ermk]

I think that if he doesn't want a relationship with you you shouldn't force it on him. Try being friends with him and you'll be able to show him that you'll stick around for more than a week. Maybe he was just making up an excuse for the real reason he doesn't want a relationship because if he already has been going out with you for a couple days then why did he start something that he knew he didnt want in the first place?

[KathyN]

Just try to explain him that you are different and you really love him and you will try to do the best to make this relationship as lasting as possible.

Don't think that he will dump you if you know that he loves you because he won't.