dont tell me thats jus life(please read give your opinion

[Guest]

basically everythin statred at the age of 16 i was dating a boy for 5 months i really had deep feelings for him but he dumped me because i was to scared to lose my virginty so after that i met some older guy and had sex with him it was shit i wanted to see what all the fuss was about we went out for 6 months it ended because he tried to hit me and basically he was using me for sex then later 4months later someone i knew not a close frend raped me i didnt want to ave sex i cried the whole time froze complretely still is so i kept that in the dark the next day after it appen i convince myself i was dirty so i offered him sexx again i dont know y i did it but i had complete nervous breakdown i felt like a slut ugly so iwanted to drive all the thoughts away so i took pills and passed out ended up at hospatial felt like shit parents didnt care told them why i did it my mum said i deserved it my dad didnt know because my mum didnt bother to tell him anyway later that year i had a step sisiter we grew very close i would have done anything for her then she told me a secret which my dad and step mum tried 2 keep away my sister was raped by her uncle my stepmum brother my dad & her kept i tsecrret so the church family named wouldnt be shamed i hate dthem for that so me stop talking i told dad i was raped but he relied he hasnt got any time for me i felt upset because back in the day my dad was my world i grew close to a boy my age i liked him allot but everytime we had sex i started cryin he sed we didnt ave to sex but i felt like i had to give him more so i broke up with him he still rings me in the mean time i got over myself and sex one of next door neighbour cousin it was alrite i didnt cry then my sisiter introduced to her frend we got close i grew feeings for him but when we was avin sex he took of the condom told him to stop he wouldnt i look like i was goin to cry so he jumped of but then when i didnt cry he shouted at me and dumped me then 2 my knowledge him & my sister had sumthin 2 i felt betrayed specially when i told him she had boyfrend she called me a liar and he threaten me and she did nothin so i waited six months and i beated her up my dad took her side and said he dosent nothin more 2with me now im just fellin like shit my dad dosent give a sh!t my mum talks bout witch craft i lost my best frend i cant stop cryin

[Leviathan]

that's pretty heavy. you've been thorugh some hard times. you seriously need someone to trust and to rely on.

Nevertheless, this is the longest sentence I ever read!

[Angela_Sleeping]

You suck at grammar.

[saraharms1]

I'm soooo sorry for what happened to you. I've had my share of bad things but not in the area you have. I've never been sexual assulated in any way. I can't imagine what your feeling. As for your parents not careing well I know how that is. You need to know that what happened wasn't your fault. You also need to not worry so much about "pleasing" the guys with sex. You shouldn't have sex with them if you aren't ready. Who gives a crap what they want. You need to wait till YOU are ready. You can't let a guy run your life. You have to make your own desicions. You should really turn in the person who raped you. They deserve more than anything to be put behind bars.

[Guest]

Summary: Wait until you find someone for you and that really bad things in your life have been resolved before you've sex anymore.

Abstract: I just phinished writing something about awful people like that in the forum topic about someone asking if they have teen depression. Maybe you can temporarily live with a family that cares for you and respects you at least the way you should be as a human (which I assume you are). My sister did that (stayed at her friend's house for a long time) when my mom was being awful. It was good for my mom, too, and now it's better for both of them.

You don't have to let your parents or anything else ruin your life. But everyone needs to be loved and have someone love them. Looking for this in a guy when you're desperate like this (and wanting to show them how special they make you feel by having sex with them) doesn't sound like a good idea. It's hard to get better (so you don't feel badly or desperate) because you have to decide that you want things to change (hint: maybe you can change, too).

When I think about change in general I feel like it's good and I want to because I like having things go wrong about myself that I can fix and challanges are fun. No one tells me I need to change though and I don't like it because they either just accuse me of doing something that I don't even know what it means or tell me that I'm perfect.

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

Whatever I did get out of this, I'll try to help you. I'm not going to critisize you for your spelling since you already feel horrible.
You need a Councillor.

[Florentine]

You suck at grammar.

and you have an attitude problem. Dont you see shes going thru enough shit already?? jeeeeeeze the insanity...:confused: :pissedoff:

[fake Guest]

The person should use simple grammar techniques, implementing what it has learned in school, in order to communicate more effectively. Many people will have difficulty understanding the language usage when first read. The grammar used in the post sucked but it would be better to suggest using better than to tell them that they suck.

[Peblu]

Joke topic. Nice try though.

[Angela_Sleeping]

and you have an attitude problem. Dont you see shes going thru enough shit already?? jeeeeeeze the insanity...images/smilies/ponder.gif :pissedoff:
I couldn't even read what she posted, so I don't care :)

[Pearson]

It's just life Im afraid.

[Luke]

Lmao

[fletch]

if tht story is true some of you make me sick, how can you critise her grammer when shes going through enough, some people are heartless, what would you do if you mum or sister was raped i know what i would do,

fletch

[Peblu]

i know what i would do

Your sister? Again?

[ficti0n]

Thats just life.

[ficti0n]

And you can thnk again, if you think I have the patience to read that blob of words.

[GrloftheCity]

I don't know what is wrong with you all. Anybody's posts here could be fake. (That is the nature of communicating on the Internet.) Yet if we assumed that with every problem and never actually attempted to HELP anyone, then that would defeat the whole purpose of these forums, wouldn't it?

To the original poster--For problems as complicated as yours, you really need to seek professional help. Unless there are any 15-year-old psychologists here, someone professional outside of the forum would be able to help you best, because they have the specific training to deal with self-image and family problems that are as severe as yours. However, in the meantime, I WILL echo what someone said before, which is that you should stop having sex until you deal with the other problems. Being raped was a very traumatic event, and your further sexual episodes seemed to only remind you of that and give you more pain. So if you want to get rid of the pain, stop having sex, especially with those who are not understanding of your situation, because they are just using you for their own pleasure, without caring about your feelings. Then, once a professional helps you "make peace" with the events surrounding your rape, maybe sex won't remind you of such a horrible thing, and you'll be able to enjoy it again.

[Florentine]

I don't know what is wrong with you all. Anybody's posts here could be fake. (That is the nature of communicating on the Internet.) Yet if we assumed that with every problem and never actually attempted to HELP anyone, then that would defeat the whole purpose of these forums, wouldn't it?

To the original poster--For problems as complicated as yours, you really need to seek professional help. Unless there are any 15-year-old psychologists here, someone professional outside of the forum would be able to help you best, because they have the specific training to deal with self-image and family problems that are as severe as yours. However, in the meantime, I WILL echo what someone said before, which is that you should stop having sex until you deal with the other problems. Being raped was a very traumatic event, and your further sexual episodes seemed to only remind you of that and give you more pain. So if you want to get rid of the pain, stop having sex, especially with those who are not understanding of your situation, because they are just using you for their own pleasure, without caring about your feelings. Then, once a professional helps you "make peace" with the events surrounding your rape, maybe sex won't remind you of such a horrible thing, and you'll be able to enjoy it again.

Totally agree with you! Finally someone who takes this serious:)

[Angela_Sleeping]

how can you critise her grammer when shes going through enough
Because there's no way in hell I can even consider helping her, if my eyes pop out whilst trying to read what she typed.


what would you do if you mum or sister was raped
Track down the rapist and kick his ass :)

[Peblu]

what would you do if you mum or sister was raped

Ask the rapist for tips. -_-

[Angela_Sleeping]

Ask the rapist for tips. -_-
Best. Answer. Ever.

[mandude]

You suck at grammar.
You suck at being a person.

[mandude]

I couldn't even read what she posted, so I don't care :)
Then WHY THE HELL are you posting here!?

[mandude]

Because there's no way in hell I can even consider helping her, if my eyes pop out whilst trying to read what she typed.
Well if you're too stupid to make sense of it then don't post.

[Guest]

WOw that;s alot for a 16 yr old. if u need any advice email me at bocogirlwrestler@yahoo.com i have advice to give but class is almost over