jasw5724
July 17th '06, 09:07 PM
ok i need help knowing if this girl likes me...i've known her for 4 years of high school and we have been in college for a year but we go to two different colleges. we see each other a little during the summer but she is staying at her college with her sister for most of the summer and comes home for some weekends and i am staying at my school for half the summer and i come home every once in a while.
We will see each other the whole month of august though. well anyway we were just pretty good friends in high school but for the last month she started calling me more often then before and we started hanging out a little more.
About 4 weeks ago she called me up to go to the movies with 2 of our other friends who are a couple and have been for like 3 years now. So we go to the movies and we're talking and stuff and a little flirting, but nothing big. Then a week after that she calls me up to go see a friend at the hospital. So i bring one of my friends (another guy) with me.
Since we were both home from school for the weekend, and we were both leaving the next day, she asked me to go get dinner with her after the hospital. i was with my one friend so all three of us went to get something to eat. My friend suggested that we go to a dance club, and she said yes but she needed a place to stay because she was either going to the club or going back to school. so we offered her to sleep over our houses and she said she will sleep over my house.
so we go to the club, have some fun and dance and then we get back and my friend leaves and she sleeps over my house. me and her in the basement alone. i didnt try anything because we were just friends and i wasnt sure how she felt about me. but i asked her about girls and things and what a guy should do if hes on a date at the movies. and she responded by saying, "well if she goes to the movies with u, then shes already interested." She also asked who i had a crush on in high school and i told her two gurls that she already knew i had a crush on in High school, but it was like 3 years ago. and she told me a couple times about how she doesnt really like the guys at her school and stuff.
maybe im looking into it too much but it just seems like shes showing interest in me. im just not totally sure. i asked one of my good girl-friends and she said that the gurl told her about the club and the movies but she didnt make it out to be anything more than a friendship thing; but im still not really sure because she didnt say that we are just friends and she didnt say that we are more than friends.
there are more signs, like her calling me sometimes and us talking online but nothing real big. One time online we were talking about her two older sisters and how shes staying with them. then i said yea i like the oldest sister shes looks good. and she was like ha do you? and i was like yeaa. then i was like "but i like the youngest one (meaning her b/c shes the youngest lol) the best." and i gave a wink then she said good save. and i kinda took that as ok u messed up saying that u like my oldest sister but good save by saying that u like me the best. i just kinda look at the little things. maybe i am looking into too far but i just want to make sure. i know this is kind of long but i just had to ask. If i could get some feedback it would be great, thanks.
We will see each other the whole month of august though. well anyway we were just pretty good friends in high school but for the last month she started calling me more often then before and we started hanging out a little more.
About 4 weeks ago she called me up to go to the movies with 2 of our other friends who are a couple and have been for like 3 years now. So we go to the movies and we're talking and stuff and a little flirting, but nothing big. Then a week after that she calls me up to go see a friend at the hospital. So i bring one of my friends (another guy) with me.
Since we were both home from school for the weekend, and we were both leaving the next day, she asked me to go get dinner with her after the hospital. i was with my one friend so all three of us went to get something to eat. My friend suggested that we go to a dance club, and she said yes but she needed a place to stay because she was either going to the club or going back to school. so we offered her to sleep over our houses and she said she will sleep over my house.
so we go to the club, have some fun and dance and then we get back and my friend leaves and she sleeps over my house. me and her in the basement alone. i didnt try anything because we were just friends and i wasnt sure how she felt about me. but i asked her about girls and things and what a guy should do if hes on a date at the movies. and she responded by saying, "well if she goes to the movies with u, then shes already interested." She also asked who i had a crush on in high school and i told her two gurls that she already knew i had a crush on in High school, but it was like 3 years ago. and she told me a couple times about how she doesnt really like the guys at her school and stuff.
maybe im looking into it too much but it just seems like shes showing interest in me. im just not totally sure. i asked one of my good girl-friends and she said that the gurl told her about the club and the movies but she didnt make it out to be anything more than a friendship thing; but im still not really sure because she didnt say that we are just friends and she didnt say that we are more than friends.
there are more signs, like her calling me sometimes and us talking online but nothing real big. One time online we were talking about her two older sisters and how shes staying with them. then i said yea i like the oldest sister shes looks good. and she was like ha do you? and i was like yeaa. then i was like "but i like the youngest one (meaning her b/c shes the youngest lol) the best." and i gave a wink then she said good save. and i kinda took that as ok u messed up saying that u like my oldest sister but good save by saying that u like me the best. i just kinda look at the little things. maybe i am looking into too far but i just want to make sure. i know this is kind of long but i just had to ask. If i could get some feedback it would be great, thanks.